would you ask a man to marry you.... i personaliy wouldn't i think its his job to ask me!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-09 04:34:58 · 16 answers · asked by Mz. Kitkat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
times have changed, and many women ask the man. after all we are in the 21st century.
I personally wouldn't.
2007-02-09 04:41:48 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the day you women decided to do your “revolution” so you could also work and be professionals just like all the guys instead of staying home and taking care of the family, we all became the same.
Please don’t think I am against you girls being “equal” to men cause I do agree with it, I don’t believe that anybody is better than anybody else.
But by stating that you are equal, it made you equal in all aspects. So it is not just the man’s job to ask her out, to pay for dinner and movie tickets, and to ask her to marry him. You girls can now ask that too, and offer to pay too when going out for dinner. I think is not only ok, but also fair, as we both can make the same amount of money.
Still, at least in my case, I wouldn’t let my wife pay for anything, and I did ask her to marry me. But she was the one who kissed me first that one day long time ago when we went out for the first time, and I really liked it, cause it showed me she is strong, and not afraid of asking or doing what she wants when the time comes.
Must guys might even get offended if she is the one who asks him, but to me, it seems those guys should grow up and accept she has the right to ask too, and again, it shows that she is strong, and will go for what she wants in life, not depending on anyone.
2007-02-09 12:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it should be the man who asks but once in a while, if a situation arises and she needs to ask, that would probably be OK. Guys like the chase so it would be better for you if you waited for him to ask you. :)
2007-02-09 12:42:13 · answer #3 · answered by girl4christ87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes actually I would. If I knew the relationship would work then why not. That just the kind of girl I am. ( I have not found the one I would ask )
2007-02-09 12:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by castillo5247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure i would... there is nothing wrong with a women asking a man to marry her... I think it's romantic
2007-02-09 12:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by B-Diddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I think it would probably make him uncomfortable. Afterall, they all know WE want to get married, we have to sit back and wait for THEM to make up there minds.
2007-02-09 12:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Mommy of 3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE, he has to be the first to say i love you, and he has to do the proposing. we have to deal with popping out the babies, thats enough for me, lol. that and because i wouldnt want to feel like a dumbass if i got rejected!
2007-02-09 12:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! let the man be the man
2007-02-09 12:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by **Taira** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm already engaged but if he hadn't asked me soon enough I would consider asking him.
2007-02-09 12:38:41 · answer #9 · answered by dogcrazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him ask you. if he wants you like that. most men would feel robbed of the right to ask if you did it.
2007-02-09 12:38:32 · answer #10 · answered by peachez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋