she didnt like sex, but we did it. she had given me alot of chances, and she say she isnt giving anymore. i really love her. i can dont do it and respect her. i love her, not because of sex but because she is who she is.
please give this lost boy a guidance. show me the light to the heaven
2007-02-09 03:52:53 · 9 answers · asked by pangbp87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Appears as if she was not ready to engage herself into a sexual relationship with you and that you pressured her into it and have continued to pressure her. This I feel has caused her resentment towards you for not respecting her wishes. If you really love her as you say you do, then you need to convince her of your love by respecting her wish to hold off the sexual part of the relationship. I do hope you find this to be the beginning of the light to heaven. Best of luck to the both of you!
2007-02-09 04:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to reconnect as friends and take it from there. Just give her a call and say "What's up?" After a few friendly phone calls, ask what's she's doing for lunch. Make it very non-committall. Let her see for herself that you've changed. If it is meant to be it will. And another thing, when the time is right, try telling her what you've written here, communication is a really important part of any relationship whether it's friendship, marriage, couple, family. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-09 11:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If sex wasn't the reason you were with her, why did you make her do it?
Looks to me like she decided to stop letting you play games with her heart. Find another girl to use.
2007-02-09 11:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by frenzee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not call and pester her anymore, she get annoyed. try to go after one of her friends which is less attractive than her, make her jealous....... and who knows she come back to u again, if no then u have to forget her and find a new gal. good luck
2007-02-09 13:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by smartie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a very good solution. You see, probably your ex have a girl now, and you just make things dificult. Move on!
2007-02-09 11:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to speak and write English?
2007-02-09 12:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know your feelings...its hard because i want to tell my ex girlfriend as well.
2007-02-09 11:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by The J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have done something and you put your self in this predicerment
2007-02-09 12:07:39 · answer #8 · answered by Hazel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HER!!
2007-02-09 11:56:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋