even if its things they do themselves?
2007-02-09 03:36:43 · 14 answers · asked by nate_freeman78 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. It's normal but you should ask her about it. It could be because she wants to break up or something may be bothering her and she may just want to take it out on someone. Usually it's just getting mad over silly little things and she may just want a fight(verbal) to get whatever is bothering her out of her system. so maybe you should talk to her and see if everything is okay.
2007-02-09 03:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O god, women seem to do that all the time! Normal? I wouldn't call it normal, but it happens pretty much constantly. I think they are trying to find your flaws and see if you will do anything to improve yourself the way they want you to be. Underneath it's insecurity on their part, but they hate to admit that.
As long as you feel confident that you don't need to change, then challenge her back. Instead of arguing about the issues just tell her that's how you are. She'll either leave you b/c you won't change or learn to accept you.
But if you feel like she might have a point, you may want to look at yourself and see if there is something you might do to improve in that area. They're not always wrong, but some women try to mold you into their vision of the perfect man. Remember, women pick a guy for potential. men pick a woman because they like how she is now.
2007-02-09 11:54:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if the relationship is superficial and they are not happy in it. I have know a few women like the one you describe and I warn you that if it is something that continues over a period of time that you not bring up the issue of marriage. If you are to blame for any of the shortcomings she possesses, after marriage they become issues that you are nagged about on a continuous basis. In the beginning they do this to get answers to the questions they are afraid to ask for fear it might be harmful to the relationship. How you respond is how she determines how well a fit the two of you are. If there are only a few thing, work through them. If after working through them other problems fill their place, get out.
2007-02-09 11:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by jlsmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Females normally do that when they are looking for excuses to break the relationship off...
If this is your girl, you might want to consider breaking up with her before things get worse.
2007-02-09 11:42:29 · answer #4 · answered by violetmal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did in my last relationship, but I didn't want out. I was just scared at how fast our relationship was going. I had a bf who, if I got cold feet about something he would too and then things would stay in neutral until he felt better again.
So tell her "be honest and tell me if there is something wrong." and if she says "no I'm just mad at you." Then she wants out.
Sorry to hear she is being such a B*tch
2007-02-09 11:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by americanladyace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, esp. if they want to brake up...they feel if they have an excuse it will make the brakeup easier. or shes just moody od is trying to make you look perfect so she harps on u about ur imperfections hoping u will fix em and make it seem like ur the ferfect guy compared to all others
2007-02-09 11:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by babyashley011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lolx. it hits me. boys pls, don't count yourself out. who too, are doing these things, erg.
anyway, i'll speak for myself. x_X lols. it's not that i look for things just to get mad at him. if there's nothing to get mad about, what's the problem? i look for things not get mad but to have something to talk about. it's making me sick that we're always sweet and here's what i've discovered, after our fights uhm arguments, he's so sweet. haha! and to be honest,i love getting mad *a fake one* cause he's so cute explaining and he hugs me to shut up!
girls just want attention. if you're lacking on giving them the attention they need, BEWARE. we'll declare war. just kiddin'!
2007-02-09 11:49:05 · answer #7 · answered by poochini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe some thing elso is bothering her so ask her about it. i know sometimes i would get mad at my boyfriend because other people would make me mad and everything
2007-02-09 11:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Justinee X3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeni is right only if you are un happy with the relationship find some one else.
2007-02-09 11:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by Harpo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never did that unless I was getting bored and was starting to try to get him to leave me, cause I couldn't tell him to his face I was over him....
2007-02-09 11:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋