My adult sister bullies my mom. She lives at my mom's house with her 7 year old son. She has hit my mom before and has a terrible temper. Every time my mom tries to say something about her behavior, my sister threatens to take away her son so my mom will never be able to see her grandson again. This is how she gets away with her cruel treatment. I live on my own in a nearby town and can stand up to my sister and she wouldn't dare treat me the way she treats mom. I have stood up against her treatment of mom but I can't do this everytime because I end up in a fight w/ her and I'm just tired of it. I get frustrated that mom doesn't stand up to her. So what can we do?
2007-02-09 03:32:43 · 10 answers · asked by pathfindercia 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Tell your mom that if she really dare to 'move away' she would've done it.
Tell your mom to act like she doesn't care for a while. And if she try anything funny, threaten to kick her out. Your mom has to be strong for a while. Talk to her and explain it to her.
2007-02-09 03:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Diamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Kinda Know How You Feel Because I have My twin Sister and My Mom Fighting All the Time About Dumb Things.
You Should Talk To Your Sister But Also Try To Understand Your Sisters Point Of View. Maybe There Is Something That Bothers Her And The Only Way To Get It Out Is Through Your Mom. She's Probably very Lonely and She Thinks Know Understands Her.
Talk To Both Of Them and Try To Help Them Understand Each Other.
Don't Give Up.
Tell Your Mom That You Love Her Often and Care For Her Because Right Now She Only Has You.
2007-02-09 03:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in certain countries,if she hits ur mom,she got be report!! straight way! she got no rights,shes a truly slut,how dares,she leaves off her mom and still dare to bully or worse yet,hits her mom?i guess that if there were a man in the house,such as a brother or a dad,she would not DARE to pull her way around, her mother,i really really feel sorry for ur mom. and i wud report such nasty evil sis,if the situation arises,and ask her to get out,ur mom;s home! Yr mom needs protections and ur sis,enforcement, to show her,who the boss is! for she is not been a heroin,shes been a total ,coward,ungrateful loser!.she got pay for her evil deeds.towards her own mother!
2007-02-09 03:40:45 · answer #3 · answered by brasil_mulher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to your mother and tell her how you feel about your sister's behavior. This is your mother's house and what gives your sister the right to treat her like crap? I think its time that you and your mother take action by confronting her about her behavior, be more open and brutally honest about it, and kick "Miss Thing" out of the house! Besides, your sister needs to grow up and start taking full responsibility for her actions! Good luck!
2007-02-09 06:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing if your mom is such a whimp then she will be one and let the sister walk all over her.
you can contact a lawyer and see what a couple of them say. you need proof of abusue though which is hard to get.
your mom just needs to drop kick your sister out of the house and take the kids away from her.
need proof for judge to see and or hear.
2007-02-09 03:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom should consider counselor to come to terms with this behavior. This is scary that she treat her mom this way. The sad thing is the way she treat her mom, her child with treat her and worse some day.
2007-02-09 04:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Morality 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about your state but mine has a grandparents rights Law .
Check with a lawyer to see if your state has it .If so she would get visitation on every other week end .Saturday morning till Sunday afternoon . She needs to know this She needs to kick this gal out of the house if she speaks to her that way !
2007-02-09 03:48:31 · answer #7 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your mom needs to get her out of the house! Your sister is rude, irresponsible and spoiled! She has no place to be hitting your mom and she needs to go before she hurts her.
If your mom wanted to be nasty about it, she can file for custody of the kid as his mom is violent.
2007-02-09 03:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sister may be grown up, but she acts like a child. Try sitting down and talking to her about it, and do not be afraid to use guilt. other than this, family counseling may help.
2007-02-09 03:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by matt_precht 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should call CPS on her so she knows how it feels to be treated like crap....or you could just beat the crap out of her and hope she gets it after that
2007-02-09 03:36:17 · answer #10 · answered by Huh? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋