i'm feeling especially sensitive and allergic to v-day this year because this is the first time i'm spending it alone..as in without my bf by my side. we broke up last year. everywhere i go, people are selling roses and v-day cards, bears and all. it reminded me painfully about the past which i'm trying so hard to get over it. well i've gotten over it but somehow it still haunts me every now and then.my ex bf gave me a bunch of roses for v-day last year and that was the first and the last bunuch of roses i got from him. and i saw him a few weeks ago and he pretended he couldn't see me.we used to be so close as we were each other's first gf/bf & now we were like strangers.well i just wanted to share my feelings here..thanks!
2007-02-09 03:32:35 · 11 answers · asked by Larissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry that you're sad. Remember that Valentines day has become ridiculously commercial and all those little bears end up as dog/cat toys or collecting dust eventually. Have dinner with some of your single friends, it sounds like you're young and have many many bfs ahead of you so hang in there!
2007-02-09 03:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so sad. how old are you? well, age doesn't matter. break-ups are always hard. it feels like your heart is missing and will never come back. did he break up with you? and why? if its for a stupid reason, then he didn't love you. so be mad. it's better than sad. in some ways... on Valentine's Day, just go shopping with your friends and forget about the existence of the holiday. even if you see roses and stuff everywhere around you. i know it's hard. but you just got to move on.
2007-02-09 11:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by DragonLady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you are feeling so sad. I went through something similar, and takes time to get over it. I eventually met my soul mate and have been married several years now. I see now that God was saving my best for me, and my past love was not who I was meant to be with. As far as Valentine's, please keep in mind that it is a commercial holiday...the card, candy, and flower companies make a killing off of it. True love will find its way to you one day. Until then, use this time to improve yourself and really get to know yourself and your goals and dreams!
2007-02-09 11:40:09 · answer #3 · answered by katzetex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww. I have gone through the same thing. I am sure you are not alone. Hang out with your girl friends who are also single. Also , V-day is not just for lovers. When you see cards and bears next time, get some and send them to people who you really care about.
2007-02-09 11:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean....about v-day...i was feeling that way one year and my best friend is my cousin and she went to the store and got me all kinds of stuff and in the card (it wasn't even a v-day card) she worte how much I mean to her and that me having a bf over v-day is not hta important which made me feel better....and with the seeing your ex....there was this guys i spent everyday with for 2 summers and then he would coem over to m house almost everyday and now when i see with him he doesn't even say hi or wave or anything....I just wanted to tell my story to I guess....
2007-02-09 11:41:07 · answer #5 · answered by I'll go with that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is completely understandable, and how I understood it he was your first love. You will always hold something special for your first love. I still do with mine, and that has been a few many years ago. But thte thing about a first love is that it is your first... NOT your last. Things will get better with time
2007-02-09 11:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by **baby~doll** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it isnt gona be fun to be single on valentines day for me either... it really does suck! but there are a lot of people on valentines day looking to find someone special! maybe youl meet a great guy! good luck!
2007-02-09 11:43:23 · answer #7 · answered by my spill canvas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the same case for thousands of people... Dont worry much about it... Try to make yourself happy and loved by yourself...
2007-02-09 11:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by JENNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Toughin' up you can handle this. Keep your mind off of him and find yourself something to keep your mind occupied.
2007-02-09 11:36:39 · answer #9 · answered by **Red** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me to i am going through a lot all i do is cry, hurt mad, angry because i have a broken heart and he cheat on me
2007-02-09 11:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋