I am not clingy but I do feel my boyfriend and I should spend more time together. How do I talk with him about it without appearing needy? We have been together for six months. We are not teens. He is turning 34 and I just turned 27.
2007-02-09 03:21:48 · 6 answers · asked by s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldn't approach him about that. if he wants to spend more time with you he will. if not then there's nothing you can say that will make him want to more. let him take the lead.
2007-02-09 03:26:38 · answer #1 · answered by Aidan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start making plans for intimate little get away, picnics, hiking trail, watching the sunset on a hill , bottle of wine etc. get creative.
Sometimes you have to come out of your shell and routine, add a little spice, excitement, mystery and guess work in the relationship.
Do things that don't cost money or take you somewhere where there is a big crowd around. You want to have his attention, you have to lure him with mystique, pique his interest and imagination.
Arrange to meet him somewhere, dress up different than you would.. write him little love notes...
It doesn't have to be bad, graphic or cheesy, just fun......
Give it a shot you have nothing to loose.
Peal off the shell girl and get to work.....
2007-02-09 11:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have specific "activities" you want to do with him. Don't ask for "more time together" that just reeks clingy but invite him to more activities. At 34 he's pretty set in his bachelor style so changes will need to come subtly.
2007-02-09 11:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Rayca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe when he gets off work,go over to his house and cook him a dinner and start the shower. Make it a routine,he'll get use to it. A way to a mans heart is to fill the stomach first.. lol
2007-02-09 11:29:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mid 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make more plans.Ask him if he wants to do more stuff more often. As long as you guys are spending more time together he should want to hang out with yo ua lil more.
2007-02-09 11:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by lost_in_love_still 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come straight out and tell him.He's old enough to understand that all relationships need cultivating to grow.A woman is never clingy when she wants more time with her man.If you don't tell him,he'll never know.....Just do it.
2007-02-09 11:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋