Please serious answers. I feel I am dealing with one and am fed up as to how far he can go with all he has done. Also, how could this all stand in court. If I have to go to court because of him. I exposed him and now, he has claims he has filed a complaint against me. Advise please. I know....no contact anymore. But what I want to know is how someone like this works. He has done enough damage and I will not let him walk over me again.
2007-02-09 03:15:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
Manipulators come in all forms. It could be your husband, best friend, family and even people you don't even know. People who are nice and to giving are their main targets. They study you and when you are most vulnerable they take advantage of you. I've been manipulated when I'm down in the dumps and feeling sorry for myself. That's when they take advantage of you. I've learned don't show your true feelings to the people closet to you. I refuse to let anyone walk all over me. I have been hurt way to many times. Counseling helps I tired it. It's all about your self-esteem dignity. Learn how to say no. That was one of my weakest points.
2007-02-09 03:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by redrose11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mia Mia,
You did not provide any details to answer questions about anything standing up in court. The best thing to have for court to convey your point and have it validated is to have documentation, which can even be notebook entries. Witnesses. Obviously credibility of those weigh in on your case. And let go of all the emotional storyline.
We all know that it takes one to know one, so find your role in this and find out why you participated in being maniplulated; that is the best way to "stop" a manipulator.
2007-02-09 11:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by John C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
True manipulators are chameleons. Change their faces with the situation. They are difficult to spot and difficult to prove. If you feel manipulated...then they are a manipulator. Not sure any "manipulation" issues will hold up in court unless the coerce you into doing something against your will or illegal.
Only thing you can do is get away and do not speak to them because they will try to continually manipulate you.
2007-02-09 11:19:38 · answer #3 · answered by Scott M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A manipulator is confident. Most of the time its not sheer confidence. their confidence comes from the fact that they KNOW they have the situation (and the people around them) under his control.
A manipulator wear many masks. So it's really difficult to read his expression. He may be scared a **** or confident as hell but he'll never let you see it. To manipulate someone being stoic is very important.
I'd suggest you get a lawyer.
2007-02-09 11:19:53 · answer #4 · answered by Diamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at first they are very giving and saying how they are what they are not.
In my life when it comes to court the things that are wrote down on with time and date or from another witness are believed.
An exboyfriends exgirlfriend got me let go a hospital because she lied about something that i said in my own house.
good luck
2007-02-09 11:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by rgn_gray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Manipulation is is a method of persuasion through deception. Your best defense is to outwit or expose the person doing the manipulating. If you are free to break yourself free from this persons sway, than do it.
2007-02-09 11:23:03 · answer #6 · answered by Bad Samaritan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly he gains enough trust in order for his manipulation to be successful. Secondly, he has no conscience about his actions. My advise is to get as far away from someone like that as you can. Who needs the aggravation?
2007-02-09 11:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by smtilley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need some legal advice. A lawyer could tell you what you should do...and what would probably happen in court. Whatever you do...be honest and upfront. And good luck to you.
2007-02-09 11:24:10 · answer #8 · answered by TexasRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are even suspicious that he is a manipulator, then your first instinct is probably correct.
2007-02-09 11:18:44 · answer #9 · answered by morshmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a one who would manipulates everybody not only you. he would even manipulate himself
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2007-02-09 11:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by mr.Egyptino 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋