i have feelings for one girl but i also have some for the other one!
2007-02-09 03:14:18 · 19 answers · asked by thugstyle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
which do u feel more for... listen 2 your heart not your head... theres where your answer lies...
2007-02-09 03:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda F 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are they in the same school as you? If not date them both and decide later!! No seriously though, don't do that ****. I suggest spending time with both of them separately and like amanda mentioned go with your heart. There is a lot more to being with a girl than just the physical attraction. Keep some of these questions in the back of your mind when you are making your choice.
Does one make you laugh more than the other?
how does each girl come up with solutions to a problem they are faced with?
What are their plans for the future?
Who is more compatible with you?
You want someone that you can share your intrests with, someone who will accept the fact that you are not perfect and be willing to take you for who you are. I am sure you are young as most are during to day, so you are not really looking for someone to marry. It is a part of life and you should look at who will give you the most emotionally, physically, and mentally. It will more than likely end later on down the road as your views on life change and it will hurt, but it is a learning experience that will one day help you decide who you want to stand next to you for the rest of your life.
Test the waters with both before you make your choice and things will work themselves out.
2007-02-09 11:24:11 · answer #2 · answered by voodoo_lover_23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a problem, it's being a guy. None of us girls or guys should get so hung up on picking just one person for the rest of our lives so early in the game of life. God made all these choices and you have the right to pick whoever you fancy and not be stuck with someone you don't. You'll know in due time which one (if either of these 2 choices) is the right one for you.
2007-02-09 11:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be VERY careful in your decision. Think ahead of yourself, not just short term. Which do you have the most in common with? Which one are you more attracted to? and which one has pulled some strings in your heart? Whichever girl scores 2/3 on those questions is the winner. Good luck mate.
2007-02-09 11:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone goes thru that but really you have to choose what you want and grow up a little bit if this one girl is a nice girl you can see your self with in everyway. look for everything you like not just if this girl is really hot or whatever. look for a girl that is going to treat you good and has a great personality a full package. do what you think is right dont lead the other girl on if you dont choose to be with her because thats wrong.
2007-02-09 11:21:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy!
Just pretend(to yourself) that God asked you to choose one of those girls and the one you choose will vanish off the face of the earth, and the other one who you didnt choose will get to be with you.
Ask yourself this question very quickly and the first girl who pops into your mind is the one you don't want to be with as much. The other girl is the one you really want, so ask her out and just admire the unlucky other girl from afar.
It sounds weird, but it will help you figure out who you like better.
2007-02-09 11:27:31 · answer #6 · answered by Cuppycake♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself who is the right one for you. I'd keep dating , and not settle yet. If you had found your soul mate then this question wouldn't be asked. Trust what I'm saying I've been married 4 times Always feeling as you. If I had been smart I wouldn't have made those chooses so fast.
2007-02-09 11:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by russell c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man liked 3 girls nad he didn't know which to chose, so he decided to make a test to see which was better to be his girlfriend.
He took 15.000$ from the bank , gave 5000 each and told them to spend it as they wished.
The 1st went shopping, bought clothes, jewels, went to the hairdresser, etc and than told him "I spen all your money to be more beaautiful for you, to please you, all of that because I love you".
The 2nd also went shopping, bought clother for him, a cd player, a plasma tv, a pair or trainers to play football, golf clobs and xxx movies, then told him "I spent all your money to make you happy, all because I love you".
The 3rd took the money and invested it in the stock market, in 3 days, doubled the investiment, gave him back the money and said "I used your money and mad my own, now I can do whatever I want with my money, all because I love you".
Then the man thought, thought, thought, thought, thought, thought, thought, thought (men think a lot), thought, thought...
And he chose the one with the coolest ***!
2007-02-09 11:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by chato_mc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha. I'm one of the girls...in a similar situation. I say don't date either of them officially. Get to know them. Be up front. If they have a problem well buh bye to them. If they are great girls they will understand and appreciate your honesty. Whichever one you fit better with...go with that one.
2007-02-09 11:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by Pariglow03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be friends with both of them until one comes out as the clear winner. In time you will know for sure.
2007-02-09 11:17:14 · answer #10 · answered by Rayca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they both have feelings for you? If one does and one doesn't there's your answer! If they both do then you'll have to figure out which is more compatible for you. DON'T try to see them both or you will lose them both!
2007-02-09 11:20:59 · answer #11 · answered by gagesmomm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋