i am only 16years old and i hav only been wit one guy, i am begining to wander if it is because of how i look! i dont now what to do i am so upset because all of my friends hav been with at least four or five. please please can you help me?????
2007-02-09 02:08:46 · 26 answers · asked by shonareid1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mail me and we will talk
2007-02-09 02:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It may not feel like it now but you have Plenty of time to find a boyfriend. I used to be Very unpopular at school (not that Id admit it) and never had a boyfriend. Now I am with this very goodlooking man and am very happy.
First of all you dont wana settle for just anyone,take your time to find someone special who will really care about you.
Maybe go to the hairdressers,get a new doo and if you have some spare pennies go into a couple of clothes shops,maybe get some advice on what looks nice from the staff (believe me if they know your spending money they will be Very helpful)
Make sure you go out alot and meet new people,everyone knows someone whos single. Or if your very shy you could always try this web site;-facebox. Nearly everyone on there is looking for a date,but please be Carefull! Good Luck
2007-02-09 10:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, quality over quantity, it doesn't matter how many boyfriends your friends have had. Set standards for yourself and learn to enjoy life. I seriously doubt it's how you look, but why would you want a boyfriend who likes you based off how you look anyway? You want a guy who's going to like you for you. Just hang in there, sometimes it's best to just wait rather than lower your standards and get stuck with a creep.
2007-02-09 10:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is long you can catch up later or you might be lucky and find true love next week and not have to go thought the kissing a lot of frogs thing!
2007-02-09 10:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by MI5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 16 or goodness sake. Start acting like a 16 year old, enjoy yourself, have fun with your mates. You have plenty of time to settle down with guys.
2007-02-09 10:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Who said that you should have more than one boyfriend at the age of 16?
Stop looking for one! Enjoy life and come what may. Then comes a day when you'll get fed up of boys, trust me!
2007-02-09 10:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by LIZ G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some bloody people that answer these questions!
listen, calm yourself down. you have no idea how young you are. it doesnt matter if you've slept with only 1 person infact you dont want to be sleeping with loads. having said that your pals aren't sluts despite what some idiots on here say.
so much is gonna change over the next few years, let it all happen in your own time and try to enjoy yourself, i aint about numbers!
2007-02-09 10:18:56 · answer #7 · answered by jonny 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop worrying about it im 23 and i've neva had a girlfriend and i was voted best looking guy at school, start worrying when youre 30
2007-02-09 12:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by macbolta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
16, you're so young, I didn't even have my first kiss till I was 18. You shouldn't worry about not having boyfriends. It's best to just work on making sure you have good friends.
2007-02-09 10:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by tricky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is pathetic that 16 year olds think they are freaks because they don't have a huge slew of ex's already.
Although I notice that being a "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" these days sometimes just means you hang out together and talk on the phone......
It is ridiculous. You are still a kid.
2007-02-09 10:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Its good that you've only been with 5 i mea you dont wanna be a slag do you???? You cant be that bad or you wouldnt even have had 1 guy
2007-02-09 10:21:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋