My brother has just learned that i am pregnant and now he wants to talk. He says he was under alot of stress when he went pyscho on me and that he really wasn't aware of his own actions. He asked me to make an exception to the restraining order if other people are in the room to act as mediators.
My sister, Angie is the main force behind this. She is sort of acting as a peacemaker for us. I want to meet and talk with him. Angie says that she will be the mediator. I say I want my boyfriend there as well plus an unbiased third party.
My sister and brother say that just her presence alone is enough and won't agree to the extra people. My question is this----Is my brother serious about wanting to work things out or is he just trying to get me alone so he can try and harm me again?
2007-02-09 02:00:18 · 7 answers · asked by Sexie Gal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Stick to your guns; insist on your conditions or no meeting at all.
Something's not quite right about the situation; if all yur brother really wanted to do was mend fences, why would he care who else was in the room?
Don't be intimidated. This is YOUR desicion, not theirs.
2007-02-09 02:11:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be cautious in a situation like this. You never know what your brother is really planning. Stick to your guns. Insist that not only your bf be there but an unbiased third party as well. That way you are protecting yourself and that baby.
It may be that your sister has talked some sense into your brother and he is really sorry for his mistakes. But on the other hand he may just be using your sister as well.
By all means DO NOT give in to his demands. Make him cave in to yours.
2007-02-09 05:07:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jerrie's Daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try to talk to him under your conditions. Tell them that you want to talk but will feel more comfortable with your b/f there with you. If he is serious about it, he will agree to it. I wish you the best and really hope the 2 of you will work this out. He sounds like he is sorry for how he treated you. Give him a chance to explain himself....he's your Brother.
2007-02-09 02:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently he has violated your trust and your body hence the restraining order. If he truly wants to work things out he'll do it on your terms, no if, and, or buts about it. He is the one that needs to make amends, how dare he try to put any stipulations on the situation. Its a terrible thing to feel out of control as I'm sure you know. You make sure you are in control of this situation.
2007-02-09 02:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by sisimone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable!!!!!! If he wont except your boyfriend beig there then i would seriously question his motives. What is you realationship with you sister?
dont forget you are preagnat. Im a very trusting person but im getting a bad feeling about it. If he hurt you once then ild keep my gard up. especially with the baby,
2007-02-09 02:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what ur brother did to hurt u
But if ur not comfy going without ur bf
then tell them u won't come without him
I f he's serious and wants to work things out
then this should not be a problem gl
2007-02-09 02:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont no the background of ur situation but bring along your boyfriend as man strenght in case anything happens love,...oh n congrats!! xxx
2007-02-09 02:04:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋