hey 1st off i would like 2 say that me and her r both 14 years old but i am so in love with her. but right now tjhats not what i want 2 discuss. me and her go 2 the same skool and we r realy close but not in public. me and her always talk on AIM the aol screenname service and we always talk about how much we love eachother. then wen we talk on the fone it changes and all we really say is ur average smal talk and then i love you. then in public we dont even say i love you. it duznt even have 2 b in public just like wen its me and her alone at my house neither of us say i love you or talk bout how much we love eachother. ny question is is it me or her or both of us that r shy of saying it .and if it is her do i give it time or do i talk 2 her about it?
2007-02-09 01:59:30 · 8 answers · asked by tnel28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well im 14 too and i personally like my boyfriend to say it first because it makes me feel more comfortable around him so maybe if you say it first she'll say it back even if your in public or alone at your house
2007-02-09 02:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by mz_southw3st_diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might be embarrassed or she is not ready to commit. She is only 14 so love is a big word just give her some time and she will come around. Don't make a big deal because its not not your 14 you got a lot of time for love
2007-02-09 02:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by siddiq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 22:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder than words. Most people do not go around saying "I love you" in public. Be happy that you have someone who loves you. Nevermind the words.
2007-02-09 02:03:38 · answer #4 · answered by ignoramus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe your both shy and if you dont say i love you to her you cant expect that she should say it out of the blue. your 14 lifes not ment to be so compicated at that age dont be in such a rush to grow up and just have fun.
2007-02-09 02:05:56 · answer #5 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want your g/f to say that you love me in public. Can't we keep it to ourselves?
2007-02-09 02:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't EVER say that to a woman, nor do you expect her to say that to you, ESPECIALLY WHEN IT'S A LIE.
2007-02-09 02:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not ready to say it don't push her, when she is ready and comfortable with it she will. be patient.
2007-02-09 02:02:32 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋