my friend said he will like to neked his wife in 1 week to his weding day,to realy verify if his wife to be is a virgen,pls ladies should answer this question most,what will i give my friend as advice?cause he is doupting his fiance,cause he is also a virgen,is it normal to phisically check the girl?tell me???
2007-02-09 01:58:04 · 23 answers · asked by evangelist s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Wait, I think this guy is asking if the girl stands naked in front of him he will be able to tell somehow that she is a virgin.
LOL, this is crazy funny. I have to ask what country are you in that they dont teach you the basics of sex?
There is no way to tell if a girl is a virgin. None, nada, nil. If she says she is, then she is. If this boy doesnt believe her then he shouldnt be marrying her because you cant have trust issues going into a marriage, it wont work.
Oh and just before you ask, you cant tell by her bleeding either. Bleeding is caused by the breaking of the hymen, and the hymen can be broken in many ways that have nothing to do with sex and well before her first time, so most likely they girl wont bleed at all.
If she says she is a virgin, then she IS a virgin.
2007-02-09 02:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So he wants to try and see, by exterior examination of her naked body, if she's still a virgin. Can't be done...no way, no how. My brother is a gynecologist, he says there's absolutely no medical exam that can determine 100% if a woman is still a virgin. OK, here's the best advise you can give your friend (or for you if you're the "friend) DON'T MARRY HER. If you don't trust her, then don't marry her. It's that simple.
And no, it's not normal at all to physcially check if your bride to be is still a virgin. Today, most aren't.
2007-02-09 03:50:32 · answer #2 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is normal to physically check a women for virginity. Do you mean he wants to check, or have sex with her? In any case, If he doesn't trust her, he shouldn't be marrying her. Even if she wasn't a virgin, that would be something in her past, that has nothing to do with how much she loves him, especially if she has agreed to marry him. If she isn't, then he needs to let the past go, and not let it ruin their future together. Everyone makes mistakes. I don't see any reason why she would say she is a virgin, if she is not. He will surely know on his wedding night. It's not something that she could hide from him. Maybe your friend is just getting nervous about getting married.
2007-02-09 02:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No it is not normal! What are you thinking? Why do you need to know if she's a virgin or not? That's ridiculous. It doesn't matter about virginity when you're taking that big step to get married? Has someone explained to you what marriage is? It's LOVE. In love, you marry a person because you really, REALLY care about them- and you want to spend the rest of your life with them. Not for SEX. I think the reason you're getting married is to have sex with someone and not feel guilty about it. If you only love your "wife" for SEX, then get a life.
Seriously.
P.S. Learn English. It's what we speak in America.
2007-02-09 02:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by whoops! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is Naked my wife??? What is a weeding day?? Who knows what a virgen is??? Learn to spell and learn how to use spell check.. Know what I think, If you friend wants to have his girlfriend check to see is she is "PURE" then I want the test that tells us women how to check a Penis to see if it is "PURE" I think he needs to whip his little thing out and give 100% proof positive test of himself!!! - What are you guys - like 10 years old.. GROW UP!
2007-02-09 11:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by itsme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will take a guess at what you are trying to say...your friend is getting married and he wants to know if his soon to be wife is a virgin or not? Well if this is the case then..I would say that he should take her word for it. If she is not then he will know within seconds on their wedding night. If she is not..he should thank her because she may know more then he does.
2016-05-24 00:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is smart when getting married and getting ready to take on the responsibilities of taking care of someone else forever. That you have and education and can spell sorry have know idea what you are trying to say, and if you love her it wont matter if she is or is not a virgin.
2007-02-09 02:04:58 · answer #7 · answered by kuel_lady_di 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all that was the hardest thing to read but 2nd there is no way of knowing, even a doctor cant tell - supposely if a girls hymen is broke then she isnt a virgin, well thats not try because if she ever used a tampon, used toys/fingers etc. it can break it just the same. so sorry there is no way of knowing but to ask her & believe what she says
2007-02-09 02:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO..it is not normal to doubt the girl like this and check her virginity.If your friend loves his fiance, he should trust her.And virginity can not be tested like this.A girl does not always lose her virginity by having sex with a guy,but also for various reasons.If she does not bleed,that doesn't necessarily mean that she's not a virgin.Your friend should have some respect for his fiance.
2007-02-09 02:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Not only is it not normal, it is downright futile. There is no guarantee that any physical exam will provide accurate data on virginity. This is practiced in many cultures and societies but not amongst civilized individuals.
2007-02-09 02:03:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋