I know my finace comes home all tired but last night he wouldn't kiss me or nothing. We was laying down on the couch and I started to kiss down his chest. He made the remark "You never just want to lay down with me, you always got to kiss." So I blew that off. Later on that night we was in bed and he had his back towards me so I told him to face me, he wouldn't and didn't say anything. A couple minutes later I ask him again and he was like I'm not facing you, you never give up do you? It's like why is he treating me like this? What did I do wrong? After not seeing him all day I just want to cuddle with him but he seems to feel different. What should I do? What would yall do?
2007-02-09 01:51:13 · 12 answers · asked by babygirl70706 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe some certain things about u are bothering him and perhaps there are some tension going on at his workplace.U need to sit down and talk to him about it.u have to make him understand that his behaviour hurts u when u have done nothing wrong at all.Things need to be clarified.Don't let anyone mistreat u hun.take care and good luck:)
2007-02-09 01:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he was tired and just wanted you to lie down with him and watch the tv or something its only happened once its not like hes not spoken to you for a month. Dont you ever just want to chill out and relax queitly.
2007-02-09 09:58:57 · answer #2 · answered by kazz06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is refusing sex / cuddle then few reasons
A) he is loosing intrest....
b) he is MAD at you...
c) the poor guy is just REALLY TIRED!!!
i think more like b or c
either way i guess whne i guy come him i can speak from personal experinence i woudl like a gilr to make me feel more relaxed... different people are relaxed in different way.. personally...i guess listen for the song by DESTINY'S CHILD ''CATER TO YOU''
I woudl love if a girl did that for me...
2007-02-09 09:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had a similar problem. I talked to my fiance and he told me its cold feet. a lot of things troubled him. stresses from work and from the wedding planning. sometimes even though you don't want to, just give him space. he will come around.
2007-02-09 10:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by rhiannon r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably sumthing went wrong at work and is all stressed out. ask him about his day, lay off for a little while, it seems like he needs his space. or he may b mad at u, and u neeed to figure out why.
2007-02-09 09:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im sorry you are doing nothing wrong --- something has changed and you need to find out what it is ---- talk to him get him to open up --- he may think he is "protecting" you by not discussing it so you need to let him know you are in this together ---- best wishes to you both
2007-02-09 09:56:33 · answer #6 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will get worse after marriage.
Go find the right guy, this one isn't him.
2007-02-09 10:00:14 · answer #7 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it must of just been a really bad day just see how he gets home tonight
2007-02-09 09:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by chaosshade16 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so sorry for you...yup, maybe he just had a bad day at the office...
2007-02-09 10:01:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and ask him there is anything that you might be doing that bugs him and change it if not then there might be more to his whole snotty tud.
2007-02-09 09:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by gerry b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋