Have you ever felt this way?

Question

For the past 2 years or so i have felt like my mother is not going to be with us for very long, i dont think about it all the time but sometimes i do & it brings me to tears because i really love, repect & adore my mother, I am 23 years old & my mom is my whole world, i can not imagine my life without her, It makes me sad because what if she is not there the day i get married or have my 1st child. I know it sounds crazy but my mom had an operation last year to remove a tuma in her brain & thank god she recoverd & she didnt have any side effects. If you knew my mom you would understand why i just cant imagine her not with me. She is so beautiful, sophisticated, kind & generouse. Lol i always wanted to be just like her. Is it weird to feel this way , am i acting silly.

Answer 1

no, i don't think your being silly at all. Its perfectly normal to feel this way, but it sounds like the surgery has gone well and she is recovering, thats great. Pray to god everyday for your mother and thank him for letting everything with the operation go good. enjoy every moment you have with your mom try not to think about what is would be like without her and focus on the realationship you have now and enjoy every moment you do have with your mother i am praying for you

Answer 2

Hope this helps: I lost my mother when I was 21. I was on my way to work when the police were at my door with her hand bag.
I was advised she was sick and at the hospital. Truth was as I picked up the phone to call the hospital my gut told me she was dead and my gut was right. She was not sick person. She died of a heart attack coming off the bus. I never saw it coming or had a chance to say and do allot of things with her. Sounds like you and your mom have a great relationship. I can tell you my mother was not there when I was married and will not be there when my husband and I have children. Not a day goes by that I do not think of her. Your mother had a tuma removed I would think that is reason enough for your thoughts. My advise to you is make sure she is under doctor's care and enjoy the next 50 yrs with your mom don't spend your days worrying about when she is going to pass on

Answer 3

Your case is similar to many thousands of such cases.

Its very unfortunate that your mother is suffering from cancer,

Hopefully the tumor which is now removed, will prolong your mothers life by many more years.

Be strong , Don't let her know about your sad state of mind.

Just keep her happy as long as you are together, (may that be for a very long time,by Gods Grace

Be occupied with your work or some hobby, this will divert your mind from the depressing thoughts.

Remember, Its not how long one lives, But how happily one lives ones life.

You should always strive to make your mother feel happy about everything.

Just watching u working hard in u r chosen field and making progress will make her immensely happy.

Finally , Be courageous'

Everyone born in this world has to return to almighty one day'

This is the law of nature.

By endlessly worrying about, You may only pass on the emotion to your mother making her sad.

Do you wish that to happen??

Answer 4

I know how you feel. I feel like that about my mom too. My mom didn't have an operation for a tuma but she is a smoker. The only thing I can say is this...... When feel you like that about your mom than spend some extra time with her. I know that it may sound dum but going to your moms house ( if you dont live her/or do) and doing something unplan with her will make her day. I hope this might help little.

Answer 5

Not silly at all to Love, honor and respect your mother. Be sure and tell her what you've told us just now. The most important thing you can do for her is Love her like God does. Make sure she and you both have a relationship with God and know that Jesus Christ is your personal savior. The fact is that our bodies will one day pass, but who we really are, inside, our spirit being lives forever. You just need to make sure that when your body or the body of a loved one perishes, you know you (your spirit) will live in the right place for eternity. The only way to spend eternity in heaven instead of hell is by accepting Jesus as your Lord and savior. I understand what you're going through, my sister passed about 5 years ago, and I was very sad (she is only 2 years older than me and we are very close), but I have peace in knowing that I will see her again in the afterlife. In heaven there is no pain, no sickness, no fear, nothing bad. Make sure you and her are going there. Peace.

Answer 6

No you're not acting silly. It's only natural to think about the possibility of our loved ones not being here much longer. We all do at some point in our lives. Death is as natural as birth. However, one shouldn't stress over the fact that their parent will die, just enjoy the time you have with her and create as many memories as possible.

Do this for yourself. Do not make any promises to your mother for things to do with her in the future. That's the toughest part of getting over it if she does pass away.

My grandfather was like my real father. I tought me the facts of life and gave me the character I have now as an adult. He tought me how to throw a curve ball and how to drive a car. He tought me how to be patient when hunting or fishing and explained that by being patient now, as a boy, you'll be more successfull as an adult. I'm the most patient man I know today and often pray to him in Heaven, thanking him for all he tought me as a boy. I promised to take him fishing one weekend when he was scheduled to be released from the hospital, after recovering from a heart attack. Turns out he wasn't released yet and when that weekend came, I had to work. He passed away the next Monday and all I could think about was how I promised to take him fishing one more time.

So the moral of the story is.... enjoy the time you have with her, right now. Create as many happy memories as possible and when she passes, have no regrets about what you should have done with her. Go do it now!

One more thing. When you're at her house and you both are sitting on the couch, twist her hair, like she did yours when you were a child. Nothing will make her happier.

Answer 7

certainly not ,love cannot die ,that we do when loved ones pass over to god is very important ,every tear you cry will be felt by your mother
there is most assuredly a life after life ,
there are many writings as the prophet stated [to each thier own prophet was sent]
as you have a computer i suggest to search for some texts that cover the life herafter
google up angel fire search for heaven and earth /gone west ,a wanderer in spirit lands and more at the angel fire website

they describe several personages allowed by gods grace to fully inform man of the after being
there will be too much information but it is important to know it all ,
your mother will know every tear every joy
she will be there every time you need her to be there
know it for yourself
love cannot die

the love between you will last for eternity
as you will realise when you study the texts of other prophetts [though they make no such claim]
they describe much
you are not silly only a daughter that brings much pleasure to a wonderous mother.
bless you both

Answer 8

Not wierd or silly at all. I feel the same way about my Mom and it scares me to think of her not being here for me to talk to. We are really good friends and share al ot of the same hobbies like reading, movies,etc. When my wife lost her Dad to cancer a couple years ago, I saw how it tore her apart and made me think about facing the same thing with my parents. All I can say is to enjoy the time you do have with her and always let her know how much she means to you and how much you cherish her. We will all have to face losing our parents one day. Enjoy her while you can!

Answer 9

discomfort is a wierd element. Burning a finger or stubbing a toe can harm all evening, yet when I shattered my wrist into 20 products (bones protruding), i did no longer experience something in any respect. i assume i became purely into "operation mode," and that i found out that discomfort would be a incapacity in getting needed scientific help. i do no longer think of the worst actual discomfort can come on the factor of the psychological ache a lot of people have suffered. Merry Christmas, and each and each of the final to you and your loved ones. And be careful!

Answer 10

Loving your mom is not weird but as an adult you must deal with the realization that she is not eternal. Be thankful you have a mother. Take care of her as best you can while she is still with you but do understand that life will continue once she is gone.