2007-02-09 01:35:28 · 15 answers · asked by bandinusa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain your are going through. I am sure these will be some hard times for you and your kids. Try to focus on the love you still have around you. I think you have to take it hour by hour, day by day and try to find the good around you. I pray time will lessen your pain . God Bless.
2007-02-09 01:46:35 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been there not to long ago hang on!! Be strong for your family. But be aware that you will need time yourself to grieve. Take it day by day. I know you'll hear these things several times but its true. My father fell to pieces after my mother past away, I had to take care of the family and I had just turned 16. My sister was 13 and needed a mother it was hard! My older brother shut us out. You have to stick together it's the only way you can do this! My family is much tighter now. But everybody feels there's a little piece missing.
2007-02-09 09:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by **Red** 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for you but you are not alone . There are to many people friends and familly with you and the most important you have the children you have to raise them.
I am passing a very bad moment too. My mother 47 is in a battle against cervical cancer. sometimes I am hopeless but sometimes I think that she will be cured.
Anyway, time is the best remedy for everything and as time goes on also the pain does so.
2007-02-09 10:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by gloria b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for your families loss. Turn to family and friends to help you with your grief. It is alright to rely on the strength of others at a time that you cannot be strong yourself. But you will need to be there for your children. They will need you more now than ever. I truly hope things will get better for your family in the near future. My heart goes out to you and your children.
2007-02-09 09:44:30 · answer #4 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry for your loss. what i would do is be with family and friends. they will want to help you through this tramatic period in your life. another thing you might want to do with your kids is plant a tree in the back yard in her memory. this is the only thing i can say. it's so hard to try and help someone when they have lost a loved one. just hang in there and be with your family and children. only time can ease this pain somewhat. once again, i'm sorry for you and your childrens loss.
2007-02-09 09:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi dear one
I am sorry..maybe understanding of your feeling is very difficult for me.but let's to think carefully about your situation:
I know that you are sad but you children are sad too.you are an adult can can analyse your situation and decide but your children just trust on you so you have not express your sadness toward them because they are relying on you.try a holiday or taking a short trip.it will help you to be a few comfortable.also try to talk with your friends and tell them about your feeling.or even you can write on a piece of paper.
I hope soon you will return to your normal life and enjoy it again!
best wishes for you
2007-02-09 09:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by saleh_sepehri 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First know that God is with you, Second know that people love you, and Third please talk to your pastor, reverend, etc or a counsellor. It is hard enough to deal with something like that all alone, but even harder for the kids and each of you has lost something dear to you. You have to make it for your kids cause they rely on you to be the strength in their time or pain. I wish you the best of luck and you will be prayed for! God Bless!
2007-02-09 09:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by vapeaceout 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That is so sad i am sorry for your loss. Im assuming that your wife/mother of your children passed away. well its too soon not to greive and thats normal. just suround yourself with friends and relitives during this time. you will need a lot of suport. just know that your wife would want you to carry out the plans that you had for your children. she would want you to go on raising them and making their lives as safe and happy as you can. once again my heart goes out to you.
2007-02-09 09:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by eightieschick70 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is ok and necessary to grieve for your loss. My condolences.The children need to grieve too. I hope well meaning people don't lay the burden on them to 'be strong' for you. Share happy moments about their mom with them.Remind yourself to breath in and breath out.
2007-02-09 09:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by nancy e 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It well take time but it will get better as time goes on. Sorry for your loss.
2007-02-09 09:43:23 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋