ok...i like this guy soo much...n he askd me out for valentine....but i noe he dsnt like em...he told me....n my frndz forced me to take it up...n oh god...dun beleive myself....so for one day...i hav the happiness...then...despair??? isnt tht wrong for me...to plunge my own self in despair???? wat do i do...how do i deal wid it...
2007-02-09 01:34:18 · 19 answers · asked by princessMD 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok so why dnt ya thkn it other way round.......
atleast u can spent a day wid sum1 u like so much.......
aint it better that not being wid him at all........
so live ur happiness for that one day so much that its memories r so wonderfull dat u dnt even hav to be sad afterall
2007-02-09 01:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by crazyash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl even if u plan to say yes and go out all the while ul just b thinking as to y he doesnt like u and u'l b thinking abt the samething.dat means itz not gonna b a good date.but den if u think ur gonna njoy the day and keep the thought miles away frm u den go ahead.in such situations itz always good to take a deep breath relax for a sec,think abt the question/doubt once and den do the first solution dat comes to ur heart coz thats generally 98% correct.
2007-02-09 02:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by rithika r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry so much. Focus on improving and loving yourself, and helping others. If this guy (or any person) isn't going to treat you right, don't allow him the opportunity. You have to love yourself before anyone else can. Also seek help from Godly counselors, such as a Pastor or Youth Pastor or simply God himself and his True Word the Bible. He made you, and has a very important purpose for you. So NO don't hurt yourself, or place yourself in positions knowing others are trying to hurt you. Love yourself, and seek true friends that want to help you not use you.
2007-02-09 01:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by Matt B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It relies upon in case your chum sees you as only a harm chum or if she likes you as a a threat boyfriend. It feels like your female friend wasn't that worried about you , which received't be a sturdy element . you may want to ask your chum out on a date and be conscious what she says .
2016-10-17 06:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r not a toy or not any1s use n throw item
u should know u r a wonderful girl n u have confidence n u know that u can surely find some 1 better so tell him that u respect yur self n he cant treat u like that
or
u have day let him have so much fun that he likes u forever its yur choice
i know how much this hurts inside dont worry i m with u
2007-02-09 01:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by Angad 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's never ok to hurt yourself.
Just remember that as much as you like this guy now, you'll probably meet someone else in the future that you like even more and will make you forget all about this guy.
As a guy I can asure you that we are not worth it.
2007-02-09 01:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sepends upon you, how u feel being out with someone for a day. its okay if u have a valentine date with someone. yeah but if he doesnt like you or u dont like him then there is no point going for a valentine date. think what u want, whether u wanna be with someone special or u can take a chill with a freind. it all depends how u think and what u want.
2007-02-09 04:35:23 · answer #7 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe in yourself and go with your instincts, you already know the answer to this question. You are better than this....let it go..good luck in getting through this very small part of a bad relationship waiting to happen.
2007-02-09 01:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out on the date Princess. You have nothing to lose
If the two of you hit it off then great. If you don't then no harm done.
You might not like him once you get to know him or he might like you once he sees you alone. You'll never know unless you try.
The right is out there somewhere for you (and it might or might not be him). Enjoy V-day what do you have to loose.
2007-02-09 01:41:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you like him and he dot like you just move on with you're life you dot need him you're a wonderful person and can do better .You will find someone how like you and Dot worried to much about what gays say because you're better then that. you dot have to hurt you're self for that OK
Good luck?
2007-02-09 02:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋