many ppl cares about perfect wedding, romantic wedding, fairytale wedding... yes, wedding is important in some forms.. but do they notice? wedding is just a ceremony. there is a meaningful thing behind the word wedding, its marriage...
marriage is all about feelings...
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2007-02-09 01:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by Caryn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I can tell you this about myself.
We didnt have the big wedding with all the "bells and whistles", we just wanted to get married intimately and decided on a small wedding. We have been married happily for over 8 years, I love him very much and my life is truly great. BUT both he and I look back on our wedding day very sadly, we wish we would have done it right the first time and gone through with the "bells and whstles" that are associated with a big wedding.
The wedding and the marriage are different, but alot of times the wedding is a nice kickoff for marriage.
2007-02-09 03:02:53 · answer #1 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, there is entirely one wedding ceremony, this is the legal ceremony that unites you in marriage, you won't be in a position to split the legalities from the ceremony, they're a kit, have been given it? moving on...you may get married on the courthouse in many circumstances for under $2 hundred. So, in the experience that your objective is to be married, you have that option. in case you elect the marriage with friends and family members it is worry-free to attain this for terribly low-value, back, maximum officiants artwork for around $one hundred, you are able to marry on your individual residing house or a loose venue like a park and then host a small little get-jointly. yet, this all seems noticeably rushed and marriage is a huge dedication that demands severe attention....are you doing this for the wonderful reasons? Are you waiting?
2016-11-02 23:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by bonanno 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people (including my dad) throw too much money at weddings. With my parents though, they eloped because he was in the military when they got married. In some ways, I think they were both trying to have the wedding they really wanted through us. I would've been content with a lot less then what we had.
We spent more time planning our marriage than our wedding, but more "focused" and stressful time on the wedding day in the weeks before.
2007-02-09 01:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Gabby_Gabby_Purrsalot 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every girl wants a beautiful wedding. Unfortunately it is also a money making business. The famous term is "You only get married once" There are many people who get married for the wrong reasons. They lie to themselves and sweep things under the rug. After the ceremony the problem is that the issues are still there swept under the rug. Eventually that piles gets bigger and bigger, you may not have to look at it but you will trip. This is why there is so much divorce.
2007-02-09 01:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry! I get your point but disagree. Marriage Is not about feelings, It is about commitment, Forming A pardner ship. That two people will always be there for each other and share the good and the bad.You can marry some one you don't love and it can work, or you can love some one very deeply and the marriage not work. Of coarse the best life is being married to some one you love and you both are committed to making it work.
2007-02-09 01:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wedding without a marriage is a formal dress costume party.
2007-02-09 01:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, it's two separate things. The wedding itself is a special way of sharing our union, but the reality of it is that my perfect man and I are pulling each other as close as we can, committing the rest of our lives to each other because we want nothing more than to spend all of our days and nights loving each other.
2007-02-09 08:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
here is my take on it all
i am 37 and got married young i think weddings and being married is a bunch of BS that only costs alot of money to get into and get out of
i have been happily unmarried for many many yrs and we have a house together checking account and even on the ins
being married back yrs ago is the only way you could get a checking account, loans ,mortgage and ins
we had a huge bbq with friends and family and told each other we will care for one another forever we have rings and i even took his name
there is no need to spend all that money for a piece of paper and you dont need that paper for someone to tell you they want to be with you forever
2007-02-09 01:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋