when u like someone and if she likes u.. u can feel it rite? i always do feel tat she likes me... i always hang out to a place near her till i can talk to her... she normally acts cool to me when her frens are around.. sometimes.. she shows her frens and tells them abt me.. her frens often disturb me.. she smiles when talking to me.. she pauses and often feel shy... she also laugh at my jokes... altho sometimes they r not funny...
but she never had lunch with me or went out with me before.. maybe coz she's still young(14) and btw she never mix with lots of guys.. shes the shy type of girl.. i give her gifts on her bdae.. i wished tat she appreciate it.. but she reacted normal.. she seldom call me... when i need company she never able to be there... but i dont really company her as well coz we only meet after school.. recently, i asked her out and insist to for a few times... she rejected but i understand... what shud i do so tat she would appreciate me? ive done a lot for her..
2007-02-09 01:23:16 · 8 answers · asked by WM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
recently, she talks to me as if she was bored with me.. why is tat? did i do something wrong? she likes it when i talks abt her and a lil abt me... but she keeps quiet when i start talking abt my situation.. like she doesnt knw how to reply.. i liked her a lot.. i find tat when ppl tries to go near her with bad or silly intentions.. i fell angry and sad.. feel like wanna punch tat guy in the face... i bought her expensive gifts.. she never calls back and said i like those gifts... or ask me wat i done to pay for the gifts... sometimes i feel tat she doesnt likes me.. my company doesnt really important to her.. but her company is really important to me.. she jus doesnt know it.. how do i make her like me? shud i ask her out again since she jus rejected me the other day or shud i wait longer? she said okay when i wanna bring her out but later on she rejects me.. tat happens all the time.. why? she flicker minded? shud i give up on liking her and do my best so tat she likes me back??
2007-02-09 01:29:40 · update #1
oo cool... i feel relieved after hearing those answers from u guys... THANKS.. btw i really did chill and doesnt often be with her except most of the days... i think i tried to hard... yes but i didnt realised it tho till after i recalled wat i've done... man its jus 4 months... anyway iam 16.. but i got a good fren (guy older and flirter than me) tries to tackle her too.. so its like a race now... how do i make her like me better than my fren... i hate to lose a good fren and win a girl or vise versa...
2007-02-09 01:45:14 · update #2
talk to her thats all you can do
2007-02-09 01:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by vicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old you are, but she is 14! Be patient. The fact that you've insisted she go out with you, and she's still talking to you is good, but at 14 most people, not only girls, don't have the mental acumen to "go out" or "be steady" with another. Seems like she knows this better than you do. Back off some. Don't push.
2007-02-09 09:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by pitmanette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, the reason why she's ignoring you is cuz you are trying 2 hard. Girls feel unconfortable when guys try too hard, and as I can see, she needs some space. Leave her alone for a couple weeks (as hard as it may be) but don't completly ignore her. You can't buy a girl love, you need to show her with feelings, not through gifts. Good luck! ;)
2007-02-09 09:31:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, she's only 14, and may not be ready for a steady boyfriend.
2007-02-09 09:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with her- i don't mean the normal after school talk, but have a very deep conversation where there are no walls
2007-02-09 09:28:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
girls usually like to express their love in a passive way . it means they like the boy pay attention to them and that boy don't think that she needed him. it is natural.
2007-02-09 09:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by saleh_sepehri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
any type of rejection means move on. Quit tormenting yourself.
2007-02-09 09:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont need to do nething else for her. u've done so much, that its her turn to do sumthing
2007-02-09 09:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋