each other with all our hearts but it seems like we our relatioship is falling apart and neither one of us want to break up at all how can we stop this???
2007-02-09 00:46:00 · 12 answers · asked by anthony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude it's a phase that happens in a relationship. You guys need to try and see eachothers view. What ever the situation is try and see it through her eyes before starting an arguement. Listen, Think and then Respond. Those three things can actually help. If you all get past this then that'll be a huge accomplishment in your relationship. Good luck...hope it turns out well.
2007-02-09 00:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably a good reason why it's not working out between you two. Unfortunately, love isn't always enough to keep a relationship intact. You both want to keep it going because it's what you've known, it is what you're comfortable with and you don't want to have to start over with someone new - or be alone.
There is a chance you may be able to work things out, but you need to articulate what it is that is wrong. It may be hard to verbalize this. You may want to try sitting down together - each of you takes a pen and paper and writes down the good and the bad things they like in the relationship - then you swap papers. This will open up discussion and you may be able to resolve what ever it is that isn't working. Good luck.
2007-02-09 00:52:53 · answer #2 · answered by Jasper213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk, talk, talk. Talk to each other and find out where the problem lies. Remember why you loved each other in the first place. Too many relationships fall apart so easily these days. Try your best to make it work if that is what you both want.
2007-02-09 00:50:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to have similarities to make a relationship work.. If you got problems, you re not agreeing on things.
You need to compromise - If neither of you can, sorry to say you gotta let go!
2007-02-09 00:49:56 · answer #4 · answered by chasey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to a counselor. If you go to church, your pastor or priest may be able to help. A counselor can help you figure out what the problems are, and how to deal with them. Good luck!
2007-02-09 00:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sharon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quality control! Sit down, reaffirm your love and figure out where the problem is. Rela tionships take work. Make it happen!!
2007-02-09 00:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would spend a couple days apart sometime to much time toghter will make people fight. then in a couple days plan a candle light dinner for ther both of you.take it slow no rush
2007-02-09 00:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by mrssmokealot2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change find the problem and talk about it and see how you to come up with a answer. then your relationship will get back on track.
2007-02-09 00:49:56 · answer #8 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her about it and tell her how much u love her and that u dont wanna break up but it has to be solved
2007-02-09 00:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop the falling before its to late.
2007-02-09 00:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by bette69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋