We had such a connection, both bipolar and so much in common. He wont take my calls. I have become obsessed. I just need to know from him if it is over. Should I give up and just give him time?
2007-02-08 23:41:07 · 5 answers · asked by Mindy Jo 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yeah...I know how it is, the first thing is that they stop calling you, later you worry and call them but they don't pick up our phone calls...That means: "I need my space, I m studying the situation". (you need to give him some space).But in general, it means he wants to move on because he has lost interest, or he found somebody else.
Whatever he is going through right now, he doesn't want to hurt you, so that's why he doesn't pick up the phone, or does not call you. is better not to call him at this point, give him some time to organize his feelings, if he feels like doing it, he'll tell you eventually.
But don't feel bad if he never tells you what happened...Some guys never have the courage to brake up. I know that we need some explanation because we (ladies) deserve to have an honest and decent break up, then we will have an idea why things didn't work, and then we know how to deal with the grief.
We are human beings and we need to interact with others, that is why splits are so painful. Some people don't like to deal with pain, and they assume that there was no end, or beginning, so they can repress what they are feeling and that gives them the chance to move on without feeling bad, maybe that is why he's not talking to you anymore.
I think you should stop calling him, please understand that it is very inmature what he is doing. You are the one who needs space to evaluate this situation.
2007-02-09 00:21:40 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa Wang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has not taken your calls it is because he may not want to talk to you. I know it is hard but stop calling him and wait to see if he calls, if he doesn't then forget about him. If he does not take your calls maybe it is a way of telling you ALL IS OVER, men do not like drama and some of them do as your guy.
2007-02-08 23:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by C6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes give it time. Women tend to overanalyze things and become obsessive over things. Just lay back and relax. Things will fall into place my dear.
2007-02-08 23:53:11 · answer #3 · answered by Noneyabusiness 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would...men don't like to feel pressured. If he's bipolar then he could be having a down time too...let him know you are there when he' ready but you won't wait forever.
2007-02-08 23:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes give him time. if he wants to talk to u he will call. if not the no. dont keep calling it will just aggravate him more. just leave it alone for a while
2007-02-08 23:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋