he was all to me untill she came up, he kicked me out of his life for her now he wants me back,wht do i do
i hv decided to be alone. because men re heartbreakers
2007-02-08 23:39:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How sad that he lost what he wanted all along and he has only himself to blame, but hey when you sleep with dogs you get fleas.
And he doesn't deserve you!
2007-02-08 23:45:03 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you decided to be alone then it seems you already made your decision. But if you really love this man then maybe you should take some time to think of what you really want. Maybe you could give him a trial period to see if you could trust him again and to see if it is even worth trusting him at this point. He would obviously need to win your trust back and keep it for you to want to be with him and feel safe doing so. So in my opinion you really need to take some time out and think on this one. You have to do what is right for you and only you truly know what that is. If you don't want to be with him then maybe one day you will find someone else. Not all guys are heartbreakers. I am with an incredible guy and we are expecting our first baby very soon. But I like you went through a number of heartbreakers to get to where I am now. I am just saying if I can find happiness any one can. Dont give up or lose hope. Whether your ex is the one or even if its some one you havent even met yet you will one day find what you seek. All you need to do is believe and hold on to that faith. Good luck!
2007-02-09 07:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REAL love is not on again off again. If he really loved you he would have never left you for someone else.
Too many people are willing to settle for what they think they can get - grabbing a hamburger instead of waiting for prime rib.
If you take that guy back you are sending him the message that he can do whatever he wants and you will take him back.
Don't do that to yourself. You know every time he leaves the house you will wonder if he is screwing around and in the back of your mind you will always be waiting for him to dump you again.
Those thoughts will never allow you to be happy and deep down you know you can't trust him.
2007-02-09 07:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Collette L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were to him water that has no colour, that is sparkling, that has no taste and had no smell. Unforturnately, he has gone outside there and the water there had colours , which means he encountered bad water. Beware he may now contaminate you with veneral deases. If you finally decide to make it again with him, let him go in for a test so that he should not land you in the kingdom of deases.
Receive my love.
loved_by_god1@yahoo.fr
2007-02-09 07:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more than likely right with your decision... If you let him come back then he knows he can go out on another fling/adventure and come back when he wants... Tell him it's too late, he gave up the best thing he could ever have... your love... and that you will not risk that potential for hurt ever again...
2007-02-09 07:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey some of us guys have had women do that same thing to us.
Do you really need to ask anyone,all bet deep down you know what you need to do,the only way you should give this chump another chance is if you can tell he is genuinley sorry and he apolagizes like his life depends on it,If he just thinks you should take him back like it shouldnt be a big deal,tell him to pound sand.
2007-02-09 07:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drink the water that taste the best
2007-02-09 07:43:57 · answer #7 · answered by wacky weed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, this one just happens to be a jerk, but they are not all like that. Don't let one bad experience ruin what could be a good thing when you meet the right one.
2007-02-09 07:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
:'( put me in a group with every other guy. I'm a fool for thinking girls are the most wonderful and pure thing. Lovely in every way.... you have just made me feel so horrible what can I do? :'(
2007-02-09 07:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by be my Angel :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently the waters didn't taste so well. Don't do it don't go back. If he was careless enough to toss you aside once he will do it again.
2007-02-09 07:43:05 · answer #10 · answered by Grianagh 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋