Thats it :p
err, ok, example: I am dating 1 guy, & I hav another guy who wants to meet for a drink sometime soon, plus there's another guy I may be getting a date with...however I feel that even though I can meet up for a drink, I can't simply start kissing all of them...I'd feel abit bad like a cheat? Am I over reacting?
2007-02-08 23:20:57 · 33 answers · asked by Tickle_funny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it's fair. Dating is for fun. You sound like an attractive, popular girl--not a cheater. Now is the time in your life to get to know a variety of guys. Go out and have a good time! Keep it light and casual. Don't get overly involved physically, but a little kissing is ok. The more guys you know, the more likely you are to make a good choice when you want to get serious.
2007-02-09 00:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by ragged 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't read any of the answers, but from reading other answers in the past of these questions you are going to hear that it is cheating. And they are wrong.
Cheating is when you are in a committed relationship with another person and are with another person to date, meet up for drinks behind their back, or anything more then that.
When you are dating someone they should know that there is the possibility that you will date others, and you should know that too. That's what dating is. A committed relationship is a whole other animal (so to speak). You have to be honest with who you are dating though that you aren't committed to that person. You don't have to get into specifics as to who, when and where though. That's none of their business.
When and if any of these dating partners turn out to be someone who you want to be a committed partner it will become clear. That's when you stop dating other people.
2007-02-08 23:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always go with my feelings. You sound like you have doubts. If you feel like a cheat then don't do it. If you want to have fun and kiss loads people, then do it. However you do have to be aware of other peoples feelings. These tend to nasty, raw and very messy when it comes to the matters of the heart.
Having fun kissing loads of people is good but you should look for the reasons why you need to liked by all those people. You may find something real!! Who knows?
Anyway have fun and love yourself because you are a great person.
2007-02-09 00:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by Purple_Phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you're worrying about nothing. I'd make it clear from the start of any date though that you are interested in seeing other guys if they ask you out. And until you get to know each of them better, you kinda expect they would want to do the same.
You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince. And if it looks like one of them might "the one", then's the time to discuss your possible future with him and whether you both want to become exclusive.
I think it's only cheating if one of the guys thinks you're exclusive to him and if he found there are others. So, communicate, communicate, communicate!
PS - I'm married and feel the teensiest bit jealous! Go out, have a good time......just be careful!
2007-02-08 23:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by nephtine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have committed to any of these guys, there isn't a problem with the mutiple dating . I don't think I would be very physical with any of them until I decided if I truly cared about a certain one more than any of the others. If you had asked me the same thing 20 or so years ago my answer would have been totaly different. Good luck and have fun and enjoy their company if that is what you are seeking.
2007-02-08 23:36:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating is just that. A date. And yes, you go out with multiple guys while you are dating. That's how you get to find one you like.
Dating does NOT mean sleeping around. Once you find a date that you have a lot in common with and would like a relationship with, then you stop dating everyone else and try to make a relationship work with that one special guy.
2007-02-08 23:24:40 · answer #6 · answered by kja63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, Tickle, you're just being natural. It also means that you have decency in you that doesn't want to be soiled.
Why not stick to the one you love? That love knows no bounds does not mean that you can throw it around just like that. You should start thinking of your feeling for your boy friend as sacred, that way you will not feel attracted to every romeo that comes your way.
If you met your guy kissing another babe how would you feel? Do not do to him what you would not want him to do to you. Just as there are good looking guys out there, there are double the number of girls out there! Follow your heart girl, and you will be alright.
2007-02-08 23:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by zoozoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm well if you are strssing over this it probably isn't worth it. Why not just live your life and date someone that you really feel something for and have gotten to know a little bit. Stop dating for the sake of dating. The person for you will arrive when you least expect it....
2007-02-09 00:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not cheating
that is the fun of dating
go out have fun enjoy life and see where they all go
be honest with them tho make sure they all know you are not with any one person
a kiss on the cheek is fine or a light kiss on the lips
enjoy this time in your life you will get to know alot of ppl and maybe even find some good friends in the mix
2007-02-08 23:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i call it living a little.
there is nothing wrong with seeing more than one person until such a time that you commit to one of them, then you simply drift away from the others and dont worry about telling them you're with someone either as you never want to burn your bridges you see...
have fun until you meet the right one...
oh and dont kiss all of them for goodness sake, just kiss the ones you like and see which one gives you bigger butterflies in the tummy if you know what i mean ;-)
2007-02-08 23:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Chariddie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋