i like a guy in my class,who used to come and talk to me on his own..but now that i hav a crush on him..and am paying him a lot of attention,he seems to avoid me..and doesnt even talk to me ..ever since i gave him hints that i like him too much..why is he behaving like this suddenly?
2007-02-08 23:05:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he's a hunter. When you weren't interested he was, now that you are he's not. Back off of him and one of these things will happen.
1. He will notice you again and you guys will hook up.
2. You will lose interest in him
3. He will notice you again and it won't matter to you because you lost interest
and
4. He won't pursue you anymore and it won't matter because you aren't interested in him anymore.
Ask yourself if you liked him or the attention he gave you. Think about that for a few, let it stew for a bit.
2007-02-08 23:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most boys feel ashamed on getting linked up with a girl at (u did not gve ur age). Mabye he is avoiding u due to perr pressure or is having another relationship making it little embarrasing to face u. I suggest, go back to him the old way and call off the crush part and he may come back to u. Good luck!
2007-02-08 23:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he could now like someone else. But it might be just a game for him. So don't play that game but if you must and want to have just a little bit of fun. Don't give him the attention and forget about him because most boys daydream about what they can't get.
2007-02-08 23:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by david r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously he liked the old you. Or possibly he doesn't want to get in any sort of serious relationship with your or maybe anyone at the moment. But since you've changed from you old attitude he has noticed and doesn't want to do anything about it. Or possibly he feels this new way you are acting towards him is annoying and maybe he doesn't recognize that it's love.
2007-02-08 23:09:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what guys usually do when they want to show you that they didn't mean it that way...so they're not in love with you or anything, they just like to talk to you maybe
I'm really sorry about it...i hope i'm wrong, but I doubt it, because that's what I usually do, if I get the feeling that another girl like has a crush on me or something...i just back away, because I don't want to be mean and tell them the truth in their face
2007-02-08 23:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by zorro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think maybe he is scared......he might really like you too but he might be too scared to make a move cause he doesn't want to ruin the friendship you guys have already formed. I think maybe you should approach him and ask him what's up!
2007-02-08 23:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by lil_tommy_grl_devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took too long to develop crush and he is getting serviced by someone else.
Timing is very important.
Better luck next time.
2007-02-08 23:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesn't want commitment and you scared him off, probably.
But maybe if you gave him the 'cold shoulder' he might start talking to you again.
Men can be like that.
2007-02-08 23:08:44 · answer #8 · answered by zaeli22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill is in the chase. He knows he's got you. Pull back - if he follows, then you can pursue it. If he doesn't, then you're not investing time in someone who isn't interested. All scenarios win-win.
2007-02-08 23:08:16 · answer #9 · answered by pattitutde 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋