As far as attitude goes, confidence (but not arrogance), sense of humor, and kindness. And for the appearance, well differnt women have different tastes and prefernces- but in general, just shower daily, wash your hands enough, be clean, make sure your clothes are clean and no holes in them, and take good care of your skin, even your lips, use chapstick or something like that. And remember a healthy looking body and skin is always attractive, so eat healthy and exercise too.
2007-02-08 23:13:26
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answered by Iced Mode 5
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Take a look at the sort of guys that they prefer and there is your answer. "Bad boy" types always seem to be in demand for some unfathomable reason. So have the attitude and give the appearance of someone who will cheat on women or beat them if given the chance and you'll be fighting them off. To keep these women though you may have to follow through on these things however. Doing drugs and being on unemployment also seem to be considered plusses.
2007-02-09 07:09:37
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answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6
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I was looking for a man who was stable in a job and had a good car. A man who was self sufficient. Who didn't do drugs.
As far as personality, a kind man, with a sarcastic wit who could make me laugh. A gentleness about him. One who wouldn't try to control me (I wouldn't put up with that) and who wasn't going to be controlled by me (how boring that would be). A man who shared similar views on politics.
General appearance I never really put a finger on cuz I knew that my love wouldn't necessarily come in a specific package. But i was never attracted to heavier men, or shorter men. I always seem to date or be attracted to the taller, thinner men. A man that could dress up and down when need be. Not one that wears jeans and a t-shirt all the time. A neat appearance.
My husband is 6'2" and 175lbs. He is everything I ever dreamed of and so much more.
2007-02-09 07:07:03
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answered by FaerieWhings 7
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There are many women in the world and different women are attracted to different things. But most like someone with a sense of humor. Someone who can make them feel respected and special. Let them know that there oppinion counts. Be confident in yourself and don't change. Also don't look at every girl as a possible canadate. See them as a friend and something will develope from that. Also don't just date anyone that askes you. Make sure you like them first for who they are and not where they come from.
2007-02-09 07:07:28
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answered by david r 2
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It depends on their age. I am mid (well, just over) 20's and I have a lot of single male friends. They're all nice guys. I am convinced that the nice guy never gets the girl, at least not right away.
For some reason when they are young women all want to date a**holes that treat them badly, then when they get older and want to settle down, there they go looking for all the nice guys they turned down before.
I don't think appearance is too important, but CLEAN is. Women really like clean and they like nice smelling. You can be the best looking guy on the planet but if you haven't showered and you smell like B.O. you have no chance.
Personally, I think being treated well is important. I am not saying you have to be a pushover. My man is the most stubborn, hard headed, difficult to manage wanker sometimes, but he loves me. He does things he really doesn't want to do, he helps me when I need it, he argues with me when I need to argue, he always stands up for me in front of others, he makes effort to get along with my friends and family, he pretends to listen when I talk about shoes or clothes or anything else he couldn't give a crap about, and most importantly he believes in me, even when I don't.
2007-02-09 07:19:34
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answered by minni_may1 2
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A man who is mature on both senses, who can show some respect with dignity as the pillar of himself. The man must be gentle and compassinate.
Seriously, he must be well raised, he must know whats right and wrong, have the ability to put himself on the situation of her women.General appearance, he must be smart, looking bright and intelligent and being handsome would be an additional advantage.
2007-02-09 07:08:33
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answered by Abed4life 2
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I dig a guy who is funny, confident, caring and is relaxed. Nothing is worse than being with someone who worries all the time. I also dig guys with dark hair and dark eyes. Someone who likes themselves and doesn't just do something because everyone else is. Guys who look like GI Joes are nice to look at for a minute or two and then you get bored. Just be yourself and be confident in who you are.
2007-02-09 07:07:55
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answered by batgirl 2
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OK well i like a clean man,nice smile,nice butt, and his overall aura about himself has to be sensible.. i don't like arrogant men.. i like a sense of humor ..but they are serious at the times of need..... dress is most important u have to know how to dress......and i like a man who can handle his business in the street an din the bed....and never turns to violence as his first option but always his last..the thing he turns to first is his intellects..and also a god-fearing man ..because if he fears god then he willl respect me..that all
2007-02-09 07:29:59
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answered by Video Phone 4
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I am immediately attracted to men who are confident, who look outward, who are alert and aware, who respond to me openly with warmth and humor. I certainly find a man who is taller and who out weighs me easier on the eyes as I want to feel protected and safe and want to feel the difference in us.
I like a man who makes direct eye contact, who looks into my face and who appreciates the rest of me, but I don't enjoy being leered at.
I want to be treated with respect, I like a door opened for me, I want a man to stand when I enter the room, I want help with my coat, help in and out of the car and I adore a well placed compliment but not flattery. I want an arm around my waist and my hand held in public and a truly sensual man might kiss my fingers in the back of a cab, rest his hand high up on my thigh under the table or feed me my desert.
His attitude will always be one of respect and caring, curiosity and interest. He should always be in control of himself and his life. I need to be able to put my trust in him, to submit to his leadership, his authority, but to do this he must know me and have my well being as a priority. I adore being submissive to men, the right man, and these seem to be few.
2007-02-09 07:31:36
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answered by Ande 4
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well i always had an image of what mr right looked like
come to find out my mr right only has a few things on that list so looks really does not matter in true love/ soulmates
my mr right always makes me laugh and keeps a smile on my face
he treats me the way i treat him
with respect and trust i do things for him he does things for me
and remember when it comes to the fates and love you have no idea until it hits you like a mack truck
2007-02-09 07:08:56
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answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6
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