sorry about funny spelling needed to fit it all in.
The point is that their is nothing really wrong but thier isn't much thats right, i really like her and all that and am happy with the sexual side of things but their is something missing. I might have been with her for to long, just over a year
2007-02-08 22:51:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so dump her then. there re billions and billions of women with whom u will have good sex. u need to find a soul mate, not a sex object
2007-02-08 22:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Duncan what you did was didn't give a friendship time to take place and jumped straight to the romantic side of things. First of all I believe that sex is a gift from God and shouldn't be opened until mariage. Try to make friends with her. Bring more outside things into the relationship. Don't tell her how you feel until you are sure. If you do plan to continue sex that is yours and her decision and if you do then make it special and try not to do it so often. Kiss her more too maybe she needs more reassurement and when you give her that she will make you feel more special also.
2007-02-09 06:59:58 · answer #2 · answered by david r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's totally normal to get bored, or to get into a rut. Consider this:
1. does it matter that you feel like she's your soulmate? (i.e., are you 40 and want to find the "one" or are you 17 and you expect to break up when you go off to college anyway?)
2. think of what it would be like without her in your life, sometimes your meant to truly be friends and not romantic partners
3. if you love her and the "spark" has just faded, think of something to bring it back - an impromptu weekend excursion; or attend a local event that you both enjoy (theater, concert, whatever)
the point here is to distinguish between how you feel about life and relationships right now and how you feel about her.
good luck!
2007-02-09 07:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Neenah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Separate for a while and see how you feel. If you miss her, what do you miss? Does that "something's missing" come into focus?
Before you can find out you must make sure you know what you want in a relationship and what you need to get out of it. If you are not sure, there always will be something missing.
2007-02-09 06:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not the one or u are not ready yet to commit in a relationship.
Are u over with problems u have in life, other probs i mean..? are those bugginh u?
are u comfortable with her? are u yourself when ur with her?
if not, then she is not the one.
2007-02-09 06:57:15 · answer #5 · answered by C-va™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about others, and be happy
2007-02-09 06:54:31 · answer #6 · answered by jka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋