There is this guy who has a relationship with his girl friend for ages, but he suddently decided to ask her to marry him after chasing a girl at work for monthes. Why would he do that? Does he really love her and how about the other girl?
2007-02-08 22:44:30 · 6 answers · asked by GeeGi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It Is IMPOSSIBLE to answer this question without actually knowing more about the people we are talking about here. I would say that to ask someone to marry you, you should love them, however, some people are different. Some people don't know what they want, and this Is likely the case here. Maybe he felt guilty about chasing another girl. The possibilities are numerous In this situation.
2007-02-08 22:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by mattkarkoska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many possible reasons.
-He feels comfortable with the girl whom he has been involved with for ''ages'', as you say. The girl at work may have been just some sort of a fling,
-May be he is comfortable + taken the girl for granted, and knows or thinks that she would welcome him anytime inspite of his wandering ways...
-May be he truly loves her, and all of the reasons above...
-May be he is just fooling around...having fun..wants to see what this girl may say or react to his proposal..
Either way, if she really loves him, she will accept him and forgive for all that he may have wandered around, but then I still would not trust him, and she may have to have a firm talk/discussion with him before really stepping into marriage, where he ought to be told that she knows everything he has been doing and really does not trust him, so whats in his mind when he proposed to her....and listen what he has to say...
good luck
2007-02-09 06:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by arya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's trying to get back on his girlfriends good side by asking her to marry him. If he's chasing other women he doesn't seem to be very trustworthy.
2007-02-09 06:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and sex are 2 different things. Maybe he just wanred to sleep with the lady at work.
2007-02-09 06:49:29 · answer #4 · answered by Pardonne Moi? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably on either rebound or wants to play games with that girl he had been chasing for months. i don't thinkl he was serious when proposing
2007-02-09 06:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he feels guilty, maybe he wants to reassure her, maybe he loves her and yet maybe he does not.
2007-02-09 06:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋