Okay. i recently well kinda recently just got my first boyfriend.
we have been dating for 2 months this suday =]
we have kissed a few times, well hes kissed my a few times (im not really sure if i kissed back =[ )
Its not that he doesnt want to kiss me cause i know he does and its not that i dont want to kiss him cause i KNOW i do.
but it just seems that when we are supposed to kiss i freak out and look away from him.
i cant get my self to look at him straight in the eye.
the thing is i REALLY like him .
and i just dont know what to do.
also.i think the reason i am so scared to kiss him is because i dont think i know how to kiss him.
yeahh i know that sounds dumb but i seriously dont think i know how to.
some please give me all the details. like little things like.
where are you supposed to look
how long do you kiss.
idk.
plus also how do you make out
i know i probably sound young and dumb but im really not that young. and im NOT dumb i just dont know boys
2007-02-08 22:40:18 · 17 answers · asked by SARAH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ohh and might i add.
i am also the first person HES ever kissed to .
so basicly we are both kissing virgins.
lol
2007-02-08 22:47:55 · update #1
Everyone has their own way of making out, so don't worry about it so much, you guys will figure it out with practice. If you're really worried about where you're supposed to look when you kiss, make it easy on yourself and close your eyes. I personally hardly ever open my eyes when I kiss, unless it's a little peck. It's more exciting and stimulating when your eyes are closed anyway. The more you think about what you're doing when you're kissing, the more you're not going to enjoy it; keep it simple and natural. If you don't feel anything when you kiss him a few times, the guy's probably not for you. It is possible to be attracted to someone, but you don't pair up well romantically; in that case, it sucks, but you have to move on. As far as how long you should kiss, you both should be able to figure out when a kiss is done, and if you've had enough, just move back, but always end it on a big kiss. There's nothing worse than ending a makeout session mid-kiss.
2007-02-08 22:51:53 · answer #1 · answered by trio83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont feel bad i was the same way when i had my 1st kiss. I was wanting to soo bad but was afraid i would not what to do and where everything was suppose to be like you are. well as we were leaning towards each other, i suddenly closed my eyes and well our lips met and it was great. my issue was which way should i lean my head, and let me tell you it;s like my body knew what to do but my mind was like having issues about it all. i thought my 1st boyfriend was so sweet he asked me if he could kiss me and i was like oh my god! but i'm 31 so i know what you are going through, dont worry cause worrying only makes your mind wonder more, and have a good time.
2007-02-08 22:51:14 · answer #2 · answered by willwork4u2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with the little kisses. No one needs to tell you how. He is the guy and they are usually the ones who lead but don't do anything if you even think your not ready for. You have plenty of time. Your questions would put up a red flag. Think.
2007-02-08 22:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by ENCHANTRESS ROSE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its easier close your eyes when you lean to kiss him! Its better like that anyway. But just try and relax and go with the flow, you will get it. No one can teach you how to kiss, you just learn from your own experience.
Just take every thing slowly, and it will all come naturally. Try not to stress about it,
2007-02-08 22:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by Eevie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if u r scared, then it means u r not ready... but anyway, here's the thing... u have to look into his eyes and DONT think of anything else other than him and his eyes... well, when u really looked into his eyes, u will feel calm and ur body will move itself and "pop" it happens! well, if u r not scared, ur toungue will move freely and when it does, its really hard to stop, unless u r out of breath... a REAL kiss will give u a pleasure that could not be described by words...
2007-02-08 22:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by aurora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the question, is do you know how to kiss? If you have never kiss before just tell him. If you can't communicate now than how well you do it in the future? You just might not be ready for this type of thing. Maybe you don't like him as much as you thought you did. There is a number of things you could be thinking about right now in your life. Don't waste to much on boys.!!
2007-02-08 22:47:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't worry we all feel like this at first,it will come naturally,practice makes perfect,he will kiss you when the time is right,maybe he's thinking the same way as you?as for making out,i don't know exactly what you mean but don't be in a hurry for that!when the time comes you will need info such as birthcontrol etc...
2007-02-08 22:48:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Do I have an answer for YOU!
Tell this guy everything you just told us. Ask him to "teach" you how to kiss...don't be embarrassed, he will LOVE it! Be honest and upfront with him. Otherwise, he might think you are avoiding him and there's something wrong.
Honestly is ALWAYS best in this situation, you will see.
2007-02-08 22:44:59 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
ok i skip a lot of that, first if you want to kiss him is to relax, it might not be good, but it won't hurt. second most people close their eyes. hope that helps.
2007-02-08 22:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps that is why most people close their eyes when they kiss.
The knowing how will come naturally, do not worry one bit about it.
2007-02-08 22:46:52 · answer #10 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋