last summer I read some messages a girl had sent to my boyfriend, now I found out is again chatting to her?

Question

Except this he is very good to me and that was a girl who usually comes at his bar acting like a friend of him, but in the summer emails, she had written that she couldn t reach him in his journey in Bulgaria (she studies in Rumania) although she wanted so much to pass some days with him.Yesterday I found him emailing her but he said his brother was emailing her (because he was with his brother) and even if he would have been emailing her nothing was wrong and that we are not married and that I am very much gelaus for him.I am 25 and I want a serious relationship He is 30. All the rest looks good with him.I haven t meet him this 2 days, although he calls me all day long. What to do???

Answer 1

well if u think u have to...ask him about it...he seems willing enought ot spend every minute of everyday with you..

Answer 2

I find his answer strange. If he assured you that you have nothing to be jealous of because he has no desire of seeing other women that would be different, he could then be friends with the girl as long it is innocent and platonic. If it is innocent he should have no trouble introducing you two via email. Why wouldn't he want his friends to meet his girl? You two may become very close friends, who knows?

If there is more going on with him and this other girl then he should be straight up with you. He doesn't have a right to lie and lead you on just because you are not married, that is stupid if you ask me and you did.

Answer 3

Get rid of him. If he isnt wanting to me with one girl at 30 he wont want to for a long time. If you want a serious relationship you need to find a man that does to.

Answer 4

well, just pick up his calls and ask the truth from ur boyfriend and tell him that u want a really serious relationship...