Iam going out with my girl for five yrs now, have 1 child of 4 yrs.I have my own house, she's staying with her parents with the kid. we plannig to move in together in June.My house is fully furnished so she doesn't have to bring anything. I'm busy redoing my whole yard, my garden, new trees, lawn etc. I asked her for assistance and money towards the project I'am busy with and she always has excuses as to why she can't help me out financially and that she doesn't have any money for that(although she has a gr8 job).So i'am thinking...if she can't help me out now...will she help me out when we staying together??
2007-02-08 22:30:14 · 7 answers · asked by CHRIBO C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't play house, get married if you want her to move in.....if you don't want to get married, then you don't plan on spending a lifetime with her, then she shouldn't move in and waste both of your time.
2007-02-08 22:34:30 · answer #1 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to listen to Beyonce's song UPGRADE because it sounds like sister girl is on a fishing expedition.
And guess what, you are the conduit to upgrading her status.
She can't help you --> she has boomeranged back to her PARENTS HOUSE!
She needs you to open the portal of your home to get access to a lifestyle that she wants and may or may not deserve.
Keep in mind that her parents are more than likely paying the mortgage of the home she is staying in. How can she be broke EVEN WITH A CHILD if she has a good job and NO RENT and NO MORTGAGE?
If she has a great job and NO MONEY, then this suggests that her habits are in dire need of improvement to ensure a more efficient use of her resources.
If you believe that pigs can fly, then you can believe that this woman can provide some cash flow for YOUR ESCROW!
However, if she can't even help her own parents out, why the hell do you think she will be able to help you?
Do you think your d#^k is that good?
You may be cute, but you are NOT THAT special.
2007-02-08 22:39:25 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!!! This girl is spoiled already. That's why there are excuses all the time. You need to sit down and talk this over with her. She probably has somethings she needs to say, as far as how she feels about you playing for everything. She might not appreciated it as must as you expected. Don't think she going to be any different than the last 8 years you two have been together. Hopefully the talk helps figure things out or I would just end it from now. There's no relationship if your doing everything by your self.
2007-02-08 22:42:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ms.Midwest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just basically answered your own question. If she keeps making excuses then the importance of the house to you doesn´t matter that much to her. Who knows? Maybe she will help out when you are staying together. When she is there you can always tell her that it is your house and she hasn´t contributed anything, so if you don´t get any help then...
2007-02-08 22:35:37 · answer #4 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that is not a good sign.... Looks like she is taking you for granted "man of the house" where u have to do all the money stuff etc....She needs to help out too...
2007-02-08 22:36:41 · answer #5 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-08 22:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Tia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so myself
2007-02-08 22:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by wildirishrose19522000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋