i'm with a person that i really like and i hope it will grow into something as sweet as love. i want to if i can make it as perfect as that.
2007-02-08 22:23:51 · 6 answers · asked by here4u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It will never be perfect. NO relationship can ever be perfect. In fact, it's the little quirks and faults of someone that seem to endure us to each other.
Star crossed lovers only happens in the movies..
2007-02-08 22:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by summit_of_human_intellect 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have the perfect relationship but you can make the difference and help to have a good relationship . I'f both of you want to have a great relationship then both are going to have a good relationship, is the nearest thing to perfect . Anyway , if you learn how to make the perfect relationship i hope you show me how because i have tried so hard and i never get there but believe me , it doesn't need to be perfect to have a nice relationship is the way you feel that make the relationship perfect . Good Luck . You can do it.
2007-02-09 06:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction; often you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus, infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you love her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless . Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the "feeling" than it is in the other person. Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person. Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love.
LOVE:
Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have diffculty dating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding. Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties. Love is Kind. Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others.. It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.
good luck :)
2007-02-09 06:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything that's perfect. I think you can have very good relationship. But every relationship has its up and downs.
2007-02-09 06:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to me it sounds like you guys are friends....personally i feel it works well when friends become lovers.so give yourself time thing might just work out..good luck!
2007-02-09 06:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell. Give your best and enjoy the ride!!!
2007-02-09 06:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by Spokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋