I had a chat with my girlfriend a while ago and she said to me she dose'nt love me as much as i love her, this was because whenever we decide to do somthing i allways get satisfaction in making her happy and doing what she wants but not what i want. I tried to explain that thats what makes me happy seeing her happy. She said that she dose'nt feel the same. Dose this mean she dose'nt love me? I think she dose, she tells me all the time, she just seems very confussed, what do you think?
2007-02-08 22:23:42 · 15 answers · asked by charming 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Charming dude, read my lips: she is not in love with you and she is not confused about anything! The feelings you have for her are not mutual. Jeez, take a walk man. She is going to take advantage of you and make you grovel in the dust for nothing. Do not waste your life, time, efforts and resources on her.
2007-02-08 22:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by violeo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you honestly believe that she loved you, you would not being harping on this "shadow of a doubt".
Further, you wouldn't even be using Yahoo Answers! to validate what your inner spirit is telling you.
Hmmm.
She says she doesn't love you as much and she doesn't feel the same.
I don't see how she can make it any plainer for you other than defecating on you in public or putting a leash around your neck and showcasing her new pet to the public.
I think you are avoiding the obvious to avoid the pain of moving on.
She doesn't sound confused.
Honestly, YOU sound confused!!
2007-02-09 06:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think she is having a happy relationship! Start a new life, move away and find somebody totally new. Love isn't love unless both people would die for eachother!
2007-02-09 07:22:46 · answer #3 · answered by pinkychanny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she still love you. Problem will always between two lovers. May be, you have given to her too much. So you think that she should do as you do for her. But most of girls need more care than to care other. Therefore, don't think too much and care her more and more. Then I think the problem between you and your girlfriend will have solved.
2007-02-09 06:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she loves you but maybe she is not in love with you. You are in love with her. Some people can stay in a relationship that way and they are perfectly happy. Take it slow. Give it time. Time will tell and you will know.
2007-02-09 06:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by ENCHANTRESS ROSE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
anyone can say i love you
its how you show it
it seems your relationship is one sided and that is not good
my love does things for me Saturdays he helps me around the house so we have the rest of the day and he will say ok your day what do you want to do
i also tell him to pick the restaurant for dinner or movie
it makes both of us happy to see the other doing what they want
it is not healthy to put all your love into someone and not get anything back
2007-02-09 06:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think she loves u but wants u to show ur needs and likes too and i can totally understand her ...its very nice if someone tries to fulfill our dreams and doing some things just because we like them but there should be a balance ... its becoming boring with time , so show ur needs to her too , tell her what u like and dont push them back all the time
2007-02-09 06:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by athina68 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love is a compromise and wanting from both sides.the girl doesnt love u .she is only being polite to u. stop falling all over her and degrading ur self.u must respect ur self if u want any girl to respect u.girls dont like wimps.
2007-02-09 06:29:59 · answer #8 · answered by natasha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it may not be love, but it sounds like she cares for you, often it takes time to love a person, however, i wouldnt bank on it happening, if shes told you its not the same for her
2007-02-09 10:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by chakra girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she does love you, and she seems very honest which you should respect.
She's just a girl and girls like doing what they want to do, but it can make us feel guilty, which is why she says she doesn't love you as much as you love her.
keep it going, she'll soon realise what she wants
2007-02-09 06:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋