Our relationship has not been too smooth because of the physical distance. I was to go and meet her over christmas but wasnt able to, but have assured her tha i would within the next couple of months.
But she suddenly says that she needs a break to clear her head, at the same time she says that it is NOT BREAKING UP?
What should i do?????
2007-02-08 22:22:28 · 10 answers · asked by insanely_saneman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really love her and want to work things out with her, tell her you will be there when she is ready to talk again.
I was in a long distance relationship too with my then-boyfriend living in a different country. He was to come see me over xmas as well but didn't because of the weather and his stubborness. I was very upset. He felt he let me down terribly and basically asked me to move on by saying I need and deserve much better.
You can do nothing really. Just give her the time and space she needs. Don't worry as she said it was not breaking up. Take the time and re-evaluate the relationship too. It might do good for you in the long run. Good luck.
2007-02-08 22:35:10 · answer #1 · answered by s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up and search for a new one.... if u need a break in a long distance relationship something happen...probably with a local hero or anything that she needs to clear... anyways ur too far from that and u will never know... as what i have seen in my life long distance relationship work for a while but will never last forever since your often not there when other people are...
the best thing what u can do is to focus on your life now and see if there are nice people in your area that u can spent time with...
sad but true...
2007-02-08 22:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by explosivegrey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dear. She knows she wants out but probably doesnt know how to say it. Probably because the history was beautiful and she so much hopes for it but doesnt feel so strongly for u anymore. Just tell her that if she needs to break up, u inderstand it mite be for the dood so go in peace. it will help her to open up then the two of u can deal with the situation
Good luck
2007-02-08 23:27:52 · answer #3 · answered by LadyK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could give her the "Break" (from nightly phone calls?)apparently she has more going on than the normal. Maybe something she learned or thinks she knows on your end, and maybe someone interesting has come into her life and she needs to reevaluate the current situation the two of you are in. Be patient and don't over react. Talk in length with her. Who knows it may just be full class load, straining grades, etc..
2007-02-08 22:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by bytemekll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't really say that she's
found somebody else..cause really who knows dude?
BUT, for sure a break means we are not together for the time being...
although, communicate with her,
that if she needs time, then it is not fair for the two of you to stay together..
you guys been together TWO years, i am assuming there is love involved,therefore
if you truly love her, u want her to be happy even if its not with you..so just to make sure that she is coming back to you or not..
she needs to be fair and allow both of you time off!
usually though, when girls say that it's either they found someone else, are confused and overwhelmed and actually do need a break, need to find themselves again or just scared.
either way, communicate!!
let her have her time, but she needs to be mindful of the both of you..
after all, you love her..you can wait a BIT...right?
;)
2007-02-08 22:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by fashionista 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy...I dont additionally be attentive to what to assert.. consistent with probability she needs to break up because of the fact shes speaking to somebody else in college the place she is. consistent with probability she'd extremely ward off for in a protracted time in her life whilst she's waiting to quiet down... if she doesnt choose you back after 5 weeks probability is narrow... arguing alot emotionally draines human beings. particularly women, on condition that they are so emotional.
2016-11-02 23:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude, I think she is breaking up or already found somebody else. It is hard being so far away. I would tell her how I feel, say baby I love you, and try to win her back (if that´s what you want).
2007-02-08 22:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by nassim420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is saying,
"What we had was good and we have history, but we are about to BE history!"
You should say,
"I too enjoyed what we had and now it's time for me to move on"
and Thank God for opening another door to someone better in your life.
2007-02-08 22:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is looking for a way out without getting the blame for it... she is gonna break up with you i would think but dosnt know how to do it, and dosnt want to look the gulity party for doing so!
2007-02-08 22:27:30 · answer #9 · answered by superloopy70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a long distance relationsship too, 1 year ago..............and it didnt worked..................we tried everything..................but the distance killed our love............iam sure you love her and she love you ....but if you cant see the person you love for months.....and if you cant reach this person when you sad ......to lean on........then there will be another person............and sooner or later this big love will break,,,,,,,,its hard work.............!!!!!
2007-02-08 22:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by night_age_germany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋