im 13 and im not sure when i should loose it cuz ive gotten lots of pressure!
2007-02-08 22:08:39 · 28 answers · asked by singlelady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loosing your virginity doesn't have anything to do with your age, Sweetie. Just because someone is pressuring you, isn't a good enough reason to "give in." Save yourself for someone who truely loves and respects you.
2007-02-08 22:15:13 · answer #1 · answered by rustybones 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nooo best age to loose your virginity!!!!!!! Its is a thing that you should do only if u are inlove with that person!!!You and your partner should have sex when you are both ready and comfortable with the idea.
Here read on carefully :D
There can be lot of pressure to lose your virginity - that is, to have sexual intercourse for the first time. Having sex with someone just because you want to lose your virginity, or because you think all your friends are doing it, is something you may regret later.
You might feel lots of anxieties, especially the first time you 'go all the way' - have sex. You may feel embarrassed about how you look without your clothes on, or worried about your privacy being disturbed. It's natural to feel some worries but good communication will really help to prevent you feeling embarrassed or worried. You should be able to talk to your partner about how you feel about having sex for the first time, and about any concerns you may have. Your partner might be worried, too. Being relaxed and able to share things with your partner will really ease the tension. And if you're too shy, or you're not able to talk about these things with your partner - then you probably shouldn't be having sex!
Take care and dont give in unless u sure u want to do this!! :D
2007-02-09 06:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When YOU are sure you are ready, not a minute sooner!
That might be 16, 18, 21, or once married. I personally say be at least 18 - for emotional reasons.
Realize, there is lots of time for it, even if you wait until marriage, so don't let anyone pressure you.
Before I hook up, I make them go through the STD tests, and we discuss having a monogamous relationship. One mistake here and you're dead. Condoms, etc. are just not that safe when your life is on the line.
2007-02-09 06:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello u r just 13 and i m sure u dont want to end up ur selves in trouble. Losing virginity can be very fast but the inpact that it will leave will be too long. Yr bf might only want to use u or if person will just break up after using u then u will be lost. And one thing more that unsafe sex can be injurious to ur health. So i would suggest that wait until u r married and u get ur true love who loves u .
2007-02-09 06:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by peacock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it
i was 20 and been with my bf for 3 yrs or so
dont do it unless you are very sure it is the one thing YOU CANT GET BACK and once its gone you will always remember who what where when and WHY
make the why because you wanted to not for anyone else
also remember the words I LOVE YOU can be said without meaning and most young guys just say it to get what they want
there is not anything more precious at your age then YOUR body and i said YOUR it is yours protect it love it and care for it you need it for the next 80 yrs or so and if you get an STD it may kill you
also think of the point of view what if you get pregnant what are you going to do i was 25 when i had my son and it was alot of work for me at that age and at the age of 38 he is still a thorn in my side
love YOURself and don't let anyone pressure you IT IS YOUR LIFE
2007-02-09 06:16:53 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand strong against the pressure Courtney. Losing your virginity is not cool at such an young age. Enjoy your childhood. There isn't a prize for losing your virginity, except maybe a disease or a baby. Your body is your own and treat it well. When you give yourself to someone, it is a gift. I hope that you will "save" this gift for later years with someone who deserves it. Don't fold under the pressure. Your worth it.
Stand strong girl! : )
2007-02-09 06:27:30 · answer #6 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18
2007-02-09 06:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
17 or 18. I was 17 and wish I had waited a while longer. Whoever
is pressuring you isn't worth giving in to. My son is 13 and if I
found out he was sexually active, he wouldn't be allowed out of
the house without me with him. I was a single mother for a while and it isn't fun. I was 21 when I had my son. If you took a chance
and got pregnant.. it does happen with protected sex too....are
you ready to raise a child? I thought I would be ready, but it turns out that I had to drop out of college and work full time just to
make ends meet. Worry about your career for now and when you get that established, then worry about sex.
2007-02-09 06:27:18 · answer #8 · answered by Spacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chronological age has nothing to do with it. Maturity does. Some girls at 14 are very mature, others yet still play with dolls. The right time is when nature calls and you feel secure and ready for it yielding to no one's pressure but your own feelings and common sense. AND use protection.
2007-02-09 06:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really serious about this wait until you're married. Boys will just use you for sex if you let them. They'll promise you the sky and the moon, then they'll tell all of their friends they screwed you, sometimes even if you didn't let them. Girls will call you a slut and you'll get a bad reputation. It's all stupid. Wait until a MAN is truely committed to you, willing to marry you and support you. If he really loves you, he'll respect your decision and wait until you two are married before you have sex. He may not like it much, but he'll wait. Then you'll be pure and the haters can only tell lies about you. Be strong and be smart.
2007-02-09 06:40:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋