3 months ago found out my (x now) boyfriend was gay after 2 and a half happy years! i didnt believe his friends but 1 day i saw it for my self O_O. hes 19. how can i move on? how can i learn to trust men again because i was tramatized up until this month lol.
2007-02-08 22:03:50 · 7 answers · asked by ms♥ catepillarஐღஐஐღஐ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You believe what you want to believe. Sometimes it turns out not to be the truth. Evidently he hid it from you very well. That's history now.
I doubt that you will never trust a man (or any other person) again. You made some assumptions that turned out to be false. You ignored the claims of others because you did not want them to be true. Haven't we all done that at one time or another?
Deception is as old as Adam and Eve. You don't have an exclusive on it. Find another guy who is interested in you and take it from there. It's not like you have "MY BOYFRIEND WAS GAY" stamped on your forehead.
2007-02-08 22:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my girlfriend came out and said she was gay about 2 years into our relationship. It wasnt anything i was doing wrong, iam polish and gifted :) We still hang out as friends. Rent a movie from blockbuster called SAVED. It is a comedy about exactly what happened to you. Trust me, you will feel better :)
2007-02-09 06:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by Timothy L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
omg, my mate went through that a couple of years back, she caught her boyfriend with her friends boyfriend together in the shower room of there gym, at first she freaked but in the end all she could do was laugh it off, and now she is best friends with them, she was the first person to accept them and they are still together to this day, xxx
2007-02-09 06:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats to move on about. Be happy, glad, joyfull it is all over. By the way, you should get tested for Aids ASAP.
2007-02-09 06:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you turned him gay? lol, you both like sausage. how funny is that. my ex is bi and i took advantage of that. she had a girlfriend and she was mine too. so basically i had 2 g/f's and lots of fun.
2007-02-09 06:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will take u a long time to heal and to trust someone agin.
2007-02-09 06:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's hard sorry i think you need to speak to a councillor ,
2007-02-09 06:07:49 · answer #7 · answered by conan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋