i have just turned 16 and i REALLY want to do it, is this just a phase im going through and should i try and avoid having sex ,or should i go with what im feeling, and please don't tell me to wait till im married cause thats impossible lol, if you know what i mean, if you are going to answer my question please tell me your age and at what age you had sex for the first time.
2007-02-08 21:53:52 · 13 answers · asked by Tarryn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am 33 now and happily married for 11yrs with 2 kids. I was 13 when I was raped and after that I slept with a few boyfriends because I thought that was what I was supposed to do. I was by no means "loose" but I did have intercourse at a young age. I regret it every day. I am not just saying that because I am "old" And it is NOT impossible to wait. Many women and men do it all the time. I wish I would have waited for my husband. I didn't chose to be raped, but I did chose what I did afterward. And to tell you the truth, those boys you will be "sleeping" with... are not any good at it anyway.
2007-02-08 22:03:36 · answer #1 · answered by Michele A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 35 and got married for the second time last year. I waited until I was 18 until I had sex. Sure I messed around a few times (everything up to intercourse), but never had sex.
My opinion for what it's worth is wait. Most guys just want to score and get laid. Your better off waiting for someone that you can have a meaningful first time with, then being a quick score.
And this is coming from a guy.
Ps-Whenever you do decide to have sex though, insist that the guy use a condom. If he doesn't then tell him no!
2007-02-09 06:34:06 · answer #2 · answered by milwaukiedave 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should at least wait until you are in love with someone or it will be meaningless. Also, you will probably feel dirty. I dont know, some people dont. I feel that sex and love go hand in hand. Also, its not impossible to wait until you are married. I know of several who have and loved making love for the first time on their wedding night. But as far as what age I had sex for the first time, I was 15. I loved him, and I think he loved me also, he was 17. Please make your first time special and dont just let some guy stick his thing in you with no feeling.
2007-02-09 06:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, i'm 29 and I lost my V at 16 and I regrett it, only because when I think about it now, I now know I wasn't ready and the guy was an asshole. I thought he was great back then. What was I thinking!
Anyway only you can answer this question, just make sure you loose your V to someone who is caring and feels the same as you, because this is something you will remember for the rest of your life!
2007-02-09 06:01:00 · answer #4 · answered by happy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you do what yoru heart tells you but think about the consequences that come along with your actions. Be safe. And protect yourself. DOnt let your feelings get hurt. Im definately not one to preach about waiting till your married.
Im 17. and the first time i had sex i was 14 and got pregnant (had a miscarriage, but it was a big reality check) hahah.
2007-02-09 06:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I am 24 and had sex the first time when I was 14. I got pregnant. Please don't do it. You are much too young. I regret the decisions I made when I was young everyday. Are you ready to be a mother? Don't you at least want to wait until you find that one special guy to share it with?
2007-02-09 05:59:39 · answer #6 · answered by Spokie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 for me and due to peer pressure and raving teen hormones . I'm now in my 30's and non of my memorable experiences were in my teen years. If I had to do it over again, I would say I would focus my energy on getting the best grades in school and wait till I was 19-21and the relationship has more meaning.
2007-02-09 06:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should pray to the Yahoo! Gods! of Pre=teen Sex! and use your search engine to find your ultimate answer.
Only the Gods of Yahoo! Sex! Can ultimate answer your question with complete Political Correctness, and absolutely no sexual reality whatsoever.
Their wholistic ideal is in criminality, and arresting anyone who has any horny intent whatsoever, which means anyone short of your dehorned bull in the back of the lot.
Sex is bad. The Thought Police tells us so.
NEVER THINK OF SEX>
Unless it's with the the Chief of Police and his Secretary late at night!
2007-02-09 06:04:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 39 ,and the second time I had sex I was only sixteen and my girlfriend got pregnant.my whole life changed,we had a boy but I was not part of his life until he was twelve years old,now I am glad I have him but we were definitley not ready for the responsibility that came with sex at that age.
And now days you kids have Aids to worry about,A lady friend of mine told me her son who is only 18 just found out he has herpes,and she found out that about 20 percent of the high school kids at his school is expected to have herpes and possibly about that same number is expected to have aids,so if you must have sex take responsibility and be safe,because not only can sex totally change your life but it can also kill you.
2007-02-09 06:10:10 · answer #9 · answered by dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 37
and i dated my first boyfriend for 3 yrs and i was 20 before i had sex
dont do it
make sure you know for sure this is the one you want to be with
and now a days there is way to many things that can kill you so be safe when you do do it
2007-02-09 06:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋