We have a 2 year old and I am trying to figure out if we should send him home with his grandmother after the day of the wedding. We have never spent days away from him, so this is a bit hard for me... especially since he is so young still.
2007-02-08 19:42:44 · 24 answers · asked by ladymai21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
i wouldnt take him on the honeymoon...but i would have him be apart of the wedding..the honeymoon is for you and ur groom! its a time to relax and have a good time! you dont need to be tied down watching a kid! when you should be enjoying your self!!!
2007-02-08 19:46:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long would the honeymoon part of it be?
If you've never been apart from your son for more than a day, I'd bring him along, and plan on a honeymoon for your one year anniversary and get him used to being away from you for a day or so at a time, then work your way up to a week. Then next year go on a honeymoon just you and your hubby.
However, if your weddingmoon is a ways away, I'd start working on being away from him. Start with a day or two at the grandparents (this will also find out if grandparents will have a problem with him or not) and work your way up to a week. During that week try not calling at all (or whatever you plan on doing with calling him on your honeymoon). If it works out well, then after the wedding send him home with the GP's.
2007-02-09 12:00:14 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on how long your weddingmoon will be. If it's only a couple days I think it's okay to let him with his grandmother. But if it takes a week or two like that, I think you can take him.. Because all of you are going to be a family after the wedding, right? And he's too small to understand why her mother and her husband need a time alone after the wedding...Well, that's what I think...
2007-02-09 03:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by my_lee_sha85 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO --- Leave the child with Grand ma for the week --- I leaft my daughter with her Grand parents when I went to my honeymoon. The wife called to check up on her a couple of times but it was the best thing. You will NOT enjoy your honeymoon with a child around -- not the way it is supposed to be enjoyed. Your 2 year old will not remember anyway. He will enjoy his time with the grandparents and the grandparents will enjoy themselves as well.
2007-02-09 04:16:40 · answer #4 · answered by daddyspanksalot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him with a trusted relative. He will be fine. He needs to see you putting time into your relationship, so that he will be able to know what a loving relationship looks like as he gets older. If you want, you could come back a day or two early and do some family things together.
2007-02-09 16:11:38 · answer #5 · answered by ladydavonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the 2 year old with grandma. Enjoy your wedding moon. Give your undivided attention to your husband. Congratulations!
2007-02-09 03:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all Congrajulations!!!! 2yr old...hmmm...if it aint along honeymoon then u can leave him with his gramps...but if its gonna be anywhere beyond 15days i think u shud take him along and u can look up for places where they have facilities to take care of the baby while ur out partying or having a lil romantic time....there are fabulous hotels that have these kinda facilities...hunt for them NOW!!!!! all the best to the both of u!!
2007-02-09 03:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lemme_Know 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very personal question. If you have people who are trustworthy and you know that both your child and they would be happy and comfortable, then there is no harm in having them look after your child while you are away, but really this is a decision that only you and your fiance can make.
2007-02-09 05:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg...yes. you do not want your 2yr old running around on what is supposed to be time you and your husband are supposed to be spending together. this is your time to unwind and relax after all the planning. after the honeymoon you will not have many more chances to be alone with your husband on beach just laying there. or in your room, or dancing, or doing other grown-up things.
2007-02-09 09:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Steph E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't take him, have time to yourselves for this special occasion. I have four kids and I wouldn't have taken any one of them if I had them before my wedding.
My friend took her daughter to her honeymoon and she woke up all night and woke them up all night coz she was in a different place and all.
Ya wanna be able to make love and spend gr8 time together to create a memory.
Plenty of time to kiss and cuddle your boy when you return. Plus, he will be spoiled at his Grandma's :)
2007-02-09 03:52:08 · answer #10 · answered by caz_v8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋