I have a mate at work who i helped a lot, she has great esteem for me, she really appreciate me as a gud friend,
I recently proposed the best friend of the work mate. (the work mate has a boyfriend and i know him). but when i proposed her she didn't say anything. she was shy, i even gave her a red rose of which she was v.happy, so i guess she need some time to think over it,
but two days later while having a conversation with my work mate she told me that her friend(the 1 i proposed) has a boyfriend?
on the day i went out with her ,she liked my rose, she was shy and didn't say anything. i played with her hand, etc,,, it was nice.
Well if she had a boyfriend why would she go out with me to cinema and pub? and when i asked her out why she didn't tell me she is busy with someone? or is my work mate jealous? but why would she?she has a bf.
help!!!!!
2007-02-08 19:22:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im lost.What do you mean you proposed to her? Where i come from that means you asked her to marry you !
2007-02-08 19:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Proposed that soon. I assume you mean asked her to be your partner rather than asked her to marry you? A bit soon for that I would have thought.
Sounds like a lot of talking is needed. You need to be up front and so does she.
Maybe your work mate is just stirring and causing trouble. You need to sort this one out without other people putting in their opinion. They will only get in the way and spoil your chances.
Good luck. Just be honest and you can't go far wrong.
2007-02-09 03:48:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats not to cool for your work mate to have done jealous or not she had no right telling you anything. If I were you I would ask this women get it straight from the horse is mouth. You may find she is ready to dump this guy or is more attracted to you your work mate is shady if she even cared about you she should have confronted the other girl and told her to tell you not her telling you that was not her business to even say anything. What a trouble maker.Good luck
2007-02-09 03:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think proposing to someone on the first date is a little extreme and your work colleague and her friend made up that she had a BF coz they didn't want to hurt your feelings by saying
Wow are you full on or desperate, get to know someone over a very long period of time before you propose!!!
2007-02-09 03:32:13 · answer #4 · answered by Peachy Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's more likely that the girl has a boyfriend she doesn't particularly like anymore and that's why she didn't tell you about him.
I doubt the other girl would make up a boyfriend for her friend, because it would be so easy for you to confirm or deny it and then she'd be a liar in your mind forever. She knows that, she wouldn't risk it.
2007-02-09 03:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by calliope320 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your best beat is to straight up ask her not listen to someone else cuz you are right they may have other reasons for telling you that or she might just like playing head games. You wont know till you ask her or hire a privet investigator,what ever you do good luck.
2007-02-09 03:34:24 · answer #6 · answered by thatsabadthing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first ask her if she does really have a boyfriend, cause your mate might be jealous
2007-02-09 17:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know bt the best way for u to find out is to ask the girl u like whether it's true she is seeing someone..gd luck!
2007-02-09 03:29:02 · answer #8 · answered by DooGie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first i would sugjest you ask her if she has a bf and if yes, why is she going out with you... She might like you aswell and might feel confused bout her feelings for you and for her bf. Remember she is very shy...
2007-02-09 03:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by CinsTaylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all about the drama. She either wants sex on the side or ego gratification or both. Either way she wants cake and eat it too.
Don't analyze this ... it's just not that deep dude.
2007-02-09 03:28:07 · answer #10 · answered by acrobatic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋