my bf just cheated on me with this girl in our class and i found out about it and dumbed him, but now he is ringing me heaps and saying he wants me back and still loves me i don't know if i should take him back, i love him but i don't want to get hurt again. what should i do?
2007-02-08 18:59:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make him "Walk The Line"
2007-02-08 19:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by EZMZ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends.
Are you going to trust him from now on? Are you willing to talk about your feelings regarding him cheating on you? Are you going to be clingy to him if you get back together? Are you going to respect him as a man? Is your love enough to forgive and forget about what he's done? Are you willing to let your guard down again around him? Do you want to get back at him?
In other words, you have to really examine yourself, your feelings. You'd also have to have a lot of communication with him and yourself. Be honest. If this doesn't work out, there's probably another guy waiting out there with your name on him. But if your bf is the one, then you'll be able to forgive and stay with him. It's that simple.
2007-02-09 03:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by ♥☺ bratiskim∞! ☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the game of love is not only a bed of roses there are uos snd downs if you love him take him back though things will take time to get back to normal,if he realy loves he will fight to win your trust but be very carefull keep an eye on him,the other thing is thatyour bf is a jerk if he wanted to do it clean he would picked another probably from another school not in the same class
2007-02-09 03:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I will give him another chance....that's part of the game of love so play with it in other words dance with the music...
2007-02-09 03:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him, talk to him about it, and go from there. if you decide to get back with him, be very cautious. keep your guard up, just in case he does do something like that again.
2007-02-09 03:05:11 · answer #5 · answered by Nacho Chacho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, how many other times has he got away with it? A leopard never changes his spots.
2007-02-09 03:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i still don't get why are you asking this? isn't that obvious? if he has done it once he'll do it again and again; trust me i'm a dude and i know how it works.
2007-02-09 03:38:54 · answer #7 · answered by bravo20212000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋