I was loving a gal..I proposed her....but she just cheated me .Do you know even I said I have true feeling for her..she was just playing double game....when I repeatedly asked for long term relationship she shouted and said me that I am annoying her..she is already engaged...I was shocked and tried to find out my mistake..thought she must have fell annoying becoz I asked her repeatedly..I went and said sorry..but she had no any change in her behavior..she dated with someone else ..again she is trying to play game with me..but I have understood the situation..even in this her that person is also involved....
I have enough facts that they are playing game.
.should I play game with them??...a love game??
2007-02-08 18:15:22 · 8 answers · asked by nbgl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A girl done this to me one time.....I had her erased!!
2007-02-08 18:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love her truely? If not forget her. If you want her forever, fight for her. Do not be weak and ask her about it and nag. Be strong and kind and keep applying pressure. Strong is often silence. Tell her you may be available in the future and then give it a time limit like 2 months without seeing or speaking to her and then call her. Yes play the game, girls are just silly until the game is over. You are not fighting yourself, her, or the other guy, you are in a game. She doesn't know herself how she will react- it is psychology. If you are strong and go into the shadows, she will miss you and missing you will make her want to speak to you. But if you are always there nagging and "fighting" - it will be like it is today.
You get me?
Email me if you want I would be happy to help out with advice or whatever
2007-02-09 02:29:26 · answer #2 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is too late to take any decision now, since as u said she is engaged with the other guy. If u really love her, then if u could have guts u could have gone to her house directly and convince their parents and marry her directly, but could not do that so it is too late to think now. Kindly do not spoil her life,. It is easy to give suggestion but only the person who is facing knows what is going on in her mind. Kindly do not mis understand me. Let her marry. Because once her proposal is cancelled then no one will come forward for marriage. For u guys if this is cancelled u can get others. but for girls it is not so she will not be in a position to show her face any where. So are u ready to see this situation for a lover whom u loved. Decide by yourself.
2007-02-09 03:34:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion you shouldnt ...... theres no point in lowering your dignity for this girl who dosent care for u .. listen buddy i have been in the exact situation as you are at present .....you have to leave her ....it would give you a pain temporarily but in the long run you will feel that it was the right decision ....... thats what i did nd now i feel that my decision had been right ....
the day we broke off nd i came to know about her game ...i was absolutely depressed nd frustated ...so i had posted a question in yahoo answers .....you can check the reply i got ,,,,it helped me a lot ......dont worry too much if you were honest throughout the relationship you will never ave any regretts .... plzz check out the answers ..it wud help a lot ......
http://in.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aun1MOxvfyDFLIPpKbXmSuCQHQx.?qid=20070123232706AAN2hKo
2007-02-09 02:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult for men to judge a man. For a woman, marriage is a serious business. They tend to experiment with the partners. You take a decision, according to the situation and your convenience, without affecting your future, happiness and self-respect.
2007-02-09 02:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop making a fool out of yourself...
why do you care for them??
just avoid them..its so simple dear...
2007-02-09 05:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by ruprekhawati 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother...she isn't worth it..but go along if u can handle it and if you wanna have fun...but be careful don't get hurt again.best of luck
2007-02-09 02:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by indianwitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is playing wit u n want to play wit her, play if u can!! but i suggest u .. don waste ur time wit her n move on.
2007-02-09 03:46:13 · answer #8 · answered by singleman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋