I love tall men (over six one) and men who are nice. Yet I always seem to attract the ones I am not physically into. In all my years of dating I have only had one bf I was really attracted to, but that was years ago. I gave up trying to get someone I was attracted to cause I was sick of the letdowns, I so I tried finding a man based on personality traits...and found out most men arent really who are they are in real life, its just for show so they could trap you in...and now I am trapped.
Anyways, why do men I like not like me?
2007-02-08 18:15:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I said Tall men cause im tall, five nine/ten.
2007-02-08 18:25:29 · update #1
You should not put too much conditions and expect too much from men. Just ask yourself whether some one is all right. It is difficult to get what you consider to be an ideal choice. Be happy with a reasonably decent guy, who loves you. Too much of expectation will play the spoilsport.
2007-02-08 18:31:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one, but you must be patient until the one you find equally attractive comes along. Most men aren't really who you think they are? Usually, a guy will let you know if he is interested in you. Maybe when you are talking to him, it could be the first thing he tells you. If he is really into you he will give you the attention you deserve. And don't hold back, talk to these guys and show them you are interested! Could be that most guys you like don't know because you haven't told them. Like does attract like in some cases. In most other cases, their are some people who have told me that they like the opposite of them. Just allow others to see who you are, know who you are, and that will determine the attractiveness.
2007-02-09 02:20:26 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa Svetlana Flavored Coffee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've read this from a book, and I recommend it to you it's How to Find Your One True Love by Bo Sanchez. He says: You don't attract the person you deserve; you attract the person YOU THINK YOU DESERVE. so check yourself. how do you see yourself? do you value yourself? do you honestly believe you deserve someone you'd really love? or when you meet a guy you like you automatically tell yourself that , 'he's great but i dont think he likes me' that kind of self talk will ruin your chances. You deserve the best! You better believe it!
2007-02-09 02:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by J.P. 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you giving up on attracting aman you like to date maybe becouse from your past relationship leaving you feeling let downs ( like what you said)
What about starting to focus on what type of man you really want and go get it, and believe ....really believe you can get any man you want becouse belive has power, whatever you believe in thats what you get
to help you understand power of believe watch dvd 'The Secret" by Rhonda Byrne ,you can get it from Ebay.com . i got it for 50$ i think the cd or book is less expensive.movie "The Secret will train you to attract anyting you want not just aman ....more than that.
It works for me and Iam sure it will work for you. Good Luck!
2007-02-09 02:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by k_syofyan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are not the only one!!.....but jus remember that you may not always know what you want...need...........there is a difference....keep ur options open..don't limit urself to tall men only..some of the best men in the world are not so tall..don't judge the book by its size!!
2007-02-09 02:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by indianwitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen remember u ur self r unique because no one is like u.secondly u should developer ur own personality such that people should approach to instead of u waiting for them.remember if u love ur self people will love u.
2007-02-09 02:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can answer the question of why you don't like the guy who likes you, then you would know the answer.
Seriously, you need to ask God to give you the right man for you.
2007-02-09 02:22:32 · answer #7 · answered by randomizer_18 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like this quote from a dating "guru":
Like attracts like...it means you attract what you are...If you stop judging guys like contestants the nice ones will like you for how you conduct yourself (and your looks)....
2007-02-09 02:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Experimental876 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen the truth is that u cant get all the qualities which u like in your bf ... u have to compromise with a few of them ...... u hav to patiently wait dear ....... it may sound idiotic but there is certainly someone who is made for you ... you only have to wait patiently fpr him .....Best Of Luck
2007-02-09 02:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by Parjanya Roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're simply trying too hard. You should just sit back and let things happen naturally.
2007-02-09 02:18:13 · answer #10 · answered by Jack S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋