I asked a girl if she would like to go out sometime and she said yes, we don't have a date or place set up, but should I ask her where she would like to go or just pick the place and tell her?
2007-02-08 18:10:25 · 20 answers · asked by yaabro 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u shud defnitely pick the place...=)...u'l come across as being decissive, n thats an atractive factor. u cud always pick the place n then get her opinion....4 example, if u choose 2 go 2 a thai restaurant...u cud say..."do u like thai? coz im thinking we cud hav r date there"
2007-02-08 18:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to this story: I took out a girl once. She wouldn't make a decision all night. I had to order for her, everything. It made her seem not to have a personality.
Be strong and opinionated, but flexible. Set everything up and then say "how does this sound", or just pick her up and take her on a surprise. If she isn't into it she has her opportunity to say so.
You are trying to get lucky right? She doesn't see it that way, she sees it as getting to know you. So the guy puts in the effort to impress the girl just like male birds and animals do displays to impress. You have to think of what it would be like for her. To be swept away on a magical mystery tour and delivered home, or to talk through every little detail.
Be careful with the magical mystery tour thing though- not too far don't want to scare her
2007-02-08 18:19:42 · answer #2 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I prefer you pick the place. You wanna be with me? You take me out somewhere your choice, that way I can get to know what you like. If a first date asked me where I wanted to go, I'd wonder how confident he is. I wouldn't just tell her where you're both going, but mention the place to her and see what her reaction is. Take it from there.
Good luck!
2007-02-08 18:16:42 · answer #3 · answered by daughter_helping 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately ask her for her interests or what kind of food she likes, but you choose the place. Maybe ask her if there's anyplace she like to go but has never been???Set something up that's special and private so you can talk and HEAR each other.
2007-02-08 18:13:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-08 18:13:03 · answer #5 · answered by CLE CLE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better for you get ready and plan ahead the place you wanna take her but do ask her where she want to go, in case she has a specific place to go. If she do not have any place in mind, then you're ready as you've plan ahead.
2007-02-08 18:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u shld seek her opinion first to show that u are a gentleman. If she replies that she has no place in mind or doesnt mind anywhere, then u can choose the place. =)
2007-02-08 18:14:45 · answer #7 · answered by (^InLove^) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick the girl up and take her somewhere, women love it when they don't have to do a lot of thinking on the first date AND you look less wishy washy...it's a win/win!
2007-02-08 18:13:25 · answer #8 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST PICK THE PLACE TO GO and invite her to come along!
If she says no, then invite someone else. And if everyone turns you down, then go alone!
You have to exercise some manly qualities and not be wishy-washy.
2007-02-08 18:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ask because that's your first date .In the second bring here to place where you like.
2007-02-08 18:19:42 · answer #10 · answered by allan m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋