I have caught him before but he always talks his way out of it. I just wantsome good feedback on how to catch him. He swears he is not, but he is a very good liar. I love him but cant leave unless Iam sure.
2007-02-08 17:58:49 · 5 answers · asked by snowbunnyblues 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a soldier based there and I am trying to decide if I should move there. I've caught him before (via some very graphic emails) but he always talks his way out of it. I just want some good feedback on how to catch him. He swears he is not, but he is a very good liar. I love him but cant leave unless I am sure. I just married him a month ago and I think he is up to his old tricks again.
2007-02-08 18:15:55 · update #1
Honestly, your relationship is already over. He's cheated before, you don't trust him, you try to do things behind his back because you think he's trying to do things behind your back... Unless you have a pre-nup that'll make you lose money if you don't "prove" it, get over this proof thing.
You either have to confront him with the lack of trust in your relationship and see if he'll take steps together with you to fix your relationship, or you need to leave.
2007-02-08 18:03:40 · answer #1 · answered by calliope320 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you don't trust him is enough of a reason to leave. Who cares if he "cheats" you know he is a liar..what is worse than that?
John, I agree with you for some situations but I can tell she's not that situation. He sounds like a cheater because he has something to prove...
2007-02-08 18:03:24 · answer #2 · answered by katiebug 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pay him a surprise visits...check his phone....and stuff like that. or if that's not working, hire a private investigator...
i understand how u feel...you just need to be sure that he;s cheating on you before you leave him...or else you'll be wondering whether he's cheating on you and keep regretting about it your whole life...
however, i do agree with answer given before me...you caught him once...and that's the prove you'll ever need...sorry that you have to face this...
2007-02-08 18:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he cheating because he's an *** or because you're not taking care of him? Guys have needs too, not just in bed. Read the book the 7 Language of Love or something like that. If he's an ***, he's going to keep cheating on you forever. If he needs something you're not giving him, well then, take care of him.
2007-02-08 18:03:18 · answer #4 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Distance distance distance.. It's all about distance!
You both need to work this "distance" thing out first. It makes you so insecure... Even if you would catch him cheating on you or not, it doesn't matter. You don't trust him, sweetie.. , so, if he says he isn't cheating and in fact he isn't, would you believe him 100%?
2007-02-08 18:07:14 · answer #5 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋