ok........... so i went for an interview and i really liked this guy who interviewd me and he wanted to take me in the company. but his manager, a lady wasnt very ok wid it. he told me he'd call me the nxt day and he hasn't. i called but he wouldn't take my call. what do i do now? i find him really interesting and i would like to know him better.............any suggestions?????? by the way m married though v hav seperated and i will be filing for a divorce soon........pls help
2007-02-08 17:05:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure, after you have a job offer and accepted it , or after failing to get the job.
anything else looks like you asked him out to help you get the job. His manager may have picked up that he was interested in you and doesnt want that problem .
If he wont take your phone call, give it a few weeks and try again , or send him a letter.
2007-02-08 17:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Whoa easy there Mrs. You might wanna give this a little time. Now your talking about a guy who interviewed you here. You want to really give this sometimes especially knowing that you are probably an adult. Its not like us teens where you can go "hey your hot wanna go out" and they just reply yes. (because your hot) If you like this guy, I want you to hang around him a little, be easy, feel him out, get to know him, understand him. and as you do this He'll grow to understand you as well. Now when you do this, you must use your charm. (especially on a date) Get him to laugh a little, open up. Make him feel comfortable, and share each other's interests. One of the Key goals in this situation. After about a week or two, or a few dates. It should begin to fall together. If not, you can feel free to give it more time, however you might be pushing your luck that way. Another key goal: when your on a date don't be nervous, yet still don't appear too comfortable. Make him appeal to you a little, and try not to dominate the conversation. (No offense, but women do that often.) On first dates try not to tell any "Long" stories. Keep them at a minimum and you should be fine.
Now, how to score a date. I don't understand the fullness of the situation here, but what you want to do is use messages. When you score a date, try not to do this completely orally. Try leaving him a note, e-mail, voice message(the best way), or even a text message! These all work very well in our society today, trust me. And knowing that he interviewed you (I don't know what he does career wise, however I believe it is safe to say, He probably excepts messages in all these ways. Last but definitely not least, DO NOT CALL HIM DURING WORK HOURS!!! HUGE "NO NO." Try lunch breaks or just wait until you know he is out of work. If you don't know this, The best way is to find out!
Follow most of these guide lines and you should be fine. Now I have to go do my Geometry Homework and finish my English II Honors presentation. I hope I really helped.
2007-02-08 17:19:58 · answer #2 · answered by Austin D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you Nuts????
NO! NO! NO! That is like "Super Mentally Challenged"!
(put your hand out so I can slap it!)
On the other hand...If you really don't want the job and are just looking to get laid...go ahead! How much do you know about him? Did you ever consider the fact that HE might be happily married and doesn't need a Stalker?
Get a grip Girl!!!
2007-02-08 17:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Kathleen G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you mental? Don't ask him out!! I thought you wanted the job!! And you are in the middle of a separation!
Look for another job.
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2007-02-08 17:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by ♠Gotham♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's ok to ask him out. But just wait a while. See what happens with the whole hiring process first, and after a little while you can ask him out.
2007-02-08 17:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he said that he would call then wait, maybe he has been busy or something. But you shouldn't continue calling him, it will only make you look desperate. I hope he calls!
2007-02-08 17:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Yezmin Fernandez 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's ok if you don't want to work there. That sort of thing will complicate your work life. People will always wonder...hmm why DID she get this job??
2007-02-08 17:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by stupid_jupiter 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are u even asking what should u do? a guy ignored your call, what else do u want? that he hits on on your small head to ´get rid of u?
2007-02-08 17:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he doesn't follow up then he's just not that interested, wait, if he doesn't call forget about him.
2007-02-08 17:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by bestbet77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you need to do to climb the corporate ladder.
2007-02-08 17:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by Hi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋