We have sort of a long-distance relationship and only see each other a couple times a month. I tell her I want to see her more, but I that's only because I want some action, and we've only had sex once. We talk on the phone a few times a week but our conversations are becoming less and less friendly. I just get angry thinking about her and knowing that I don't get to see her. Should this end?
2007-02-08 16:37:50 · 21 answers · asked by accountant 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep her on the hook and go trolling for someone new.
when you find someone you like, then dump her.
2007-02-08 16:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you so angry about? If all you want is "action" as you say, then by all means go somewhere and get what you want and leave this young lady alone. Move on and tell her why and don't keep dragging her along thinking she is doing something wrong. Remember young jerks grow up to be old jerks!!! I am sure your Dad wouldn't want that for his legacy. Be a man and tell the girl the truth. Then go be a player for as long as you like.
2007-02-09 00:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy Roo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her! Long-distance relationships don't work so well especially when you're young. And you don't seem to care about her at all. Just for sex which you only had once. That's an example of a horrible relationship. Break up.
2007-02-09 00:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by andreamntngr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all let me point out that if you are with a girl just for sex, that relationship will not last long, it will not grow. But if you have feelings for this girl, let her know exactly how you feel and that you would like to see her and hear from her more often if she could make some arrangement. Every relationship requires a sacrifice.
2007-02-09 00:45:07 · answer #4 · answered by nedjine05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if she is happy with a long distance relationship?
It could suit her fine if she isn't complaining about it.How much do you care about her? You say you only want to see her for 'more action'.Any other reason? If you only want to see her for sexual reasons and no other, may be you should end it.She may feel that your reason for wanting to see her is not enough. Maybe she needs/wants more from the relationship.
2007-02-09 00:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by LORD BALTIMORE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, end this unless you move closer or she does...it is impossible to carry on a long distance relationship unless both of you are so busy that it wouldn't matter if you lived 5 miles from each other. Think of it that way, and you will make a good decision on this, good luck!
2007-02-09 00:42:51 · answer #6 · answered by St.Jeb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I think so. It sounds like things are about to get really bad so why not end them before that happens. Its the easiest thing to do for both of you. Most long-distance relationships don't work .
2007-02-09 00:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Dereck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told her about this? maybe being honest can get you feel closer to her. if you think she is the right one, maybe think about moving there or ask her to move out here with you. No matter what you say, it's all because you miss her and you want her. What's wrong with that? that would make a girl very happy.... so, be honest.. see what she says and you'll go from there.
2007-02-09 00:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by ms.knownothing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't seem like u guys can handle the long distance thing, so do y'all selves a favor &end it. Talk to her, be kind, u want to leave on good terms. Ask her how she feels about the situation too.
2007-02-09 00:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesnt sound like there's anything to 'dump'. no beginning no relationship to end...cuz she probably knows that you just want some 'action'. how were your conversations before? what is the difference in the content of them? probably not much by your details above. peace
2007-02-09 00:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its probably not her fault that you guys don't see each other so often. Wait a little.. But don't stay if all you want is some action and no relationship, then you're just being an ***.
2007-02-09 00:41:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋