she told me she loved me almost immediately, so i question how could that be when we just met. sh e said she love the way i look. so the the conversation went on until the next day . then i hear her talk about she need a visa to get to be with me yet she had her granfather call me to check me out. i thouhgt she was sincere, but when she asked me to send her $500. to get this visa a was really floored. so i asked her to send me her information so maybe i could pay for the visa here i have no heard from her since. did i do wrong or should i have at leased tried to help? do you think like i was trying to be played and i did good by challenging her trust in me to use her info?
2007-02-08 15:34:09 · 25 answers · asked by RONALD P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is just after your money. report her...fraud
2007-02-08 15:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is so much of this type of scam going on on the internet these days. Maybe this is the first time you heard it though. Nevertheless don't take anyone seriously on the net. And, anyone asking for money just tell them "no" and put them on ignore. Too many good people have been scammed and lost good money they worked hard to earn. Yes, you were being played.
2007-02-08 23:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by sophieb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please do not send her any money, she sounds like a con women.
How can she possibly love you, she never met you. There are so many scams going on, you must be very careful. Sometimes the so called "woman" is really a con man. Her so called "grandfather" could be her husband and they both trying to fleece you. If you want to meet someone of quality the Internet is not a good choice.
2007-02-08 23:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by flieder77 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
She's not sincere at all, but is only taking advantage of your vunerability and generosity. There are red flags everywhere!!! Don't be a fool and do this for someone you really don't know at all. She's using your feelings to manipulate you. Don't fall for it!
You will regret it big time donw the road. Just let it go and don't bother with it anymore. You're safer taking this route.
2007-02-08 23:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by artutina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you send money to someone that you don't know-if she was sincere she would have called you back-why would she ask you that on the first conversation on-line-she don't know you and you don't know her-yes she was playing you and you did right to challenge her-not only her trust and you saved $500 dollars-smart move
2007-02-08 23:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by brown sugar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you did the right thing, she was trying to manipulate you into giving her money but by saying you wanted more info that she obvisouly couldnt provide, she backed away scared
2007-02-08 23:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by f_jayce 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a scam. You're better off without her. The "grandfather" may be a seedy accomplice as well. Do not get involved.
2007-02-08 23:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Such desperation is troubling to read.
Some Russian barracuda trying to get some money out of you?
You really want to believe this is ligit?
It ain't
2007-02-08 23:40:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a scam to me. You did the right thing. You didn't outright accuse her but you protected yourself, so she moved on to someone who might not be as smart next time.
2007-02-08 23:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by gracefulelephant 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you did good. It sounds like you would have been a victim of a scam, but you averted it by asking for her information.
2007-02-08 23:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Her To Kick Rocks!
2007-02-08 23:37:02 · answer #11 · answered by Groovy Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋