alright, my bf just broke up with me, via txt. its obvious that he had found another girl and he just made up all these excuses and said that we should 'just be friends'. I know i'm going to see him on my holiday in early april which is by a beach.
anyone got any suggestions on how i can get revenge?
btw we're 16
thanks guys :)
2007-02-08 15:33:48 · 11 answers · asked by brianna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, I have to give the obligatory "By holding in your anger and trying to get revenge, you're really only hurting yourself."
Okay, with that out of the way:
Tell people aboutt he way he broke up with you. It's really not that embarassing to be broken up with when it was done through a text, because what he did was 10 times worse.
If he doesn't have unlimited texting, you can send texts over AIM (put their phone number into your buddy list by clicking "add mobile" under buddy list set-up) and run up his phone bill. I haven't done that one, it sounds like it might be a lot of work, but I think it's worth a shot.
Honestly, though, the best thing to do is just act like it never happened. Act like you guys never dated, and he never broke up with you. Greet him when you see him. Carry on with your life. It drives guys nuts because a lot of times, they WANT girls to fall apart over them. They get so delusional, they think we don't know how to live without them. The best revenge, really and honestly, is just living well and not letting him get under your skin.
2007-02-08 15:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Aliza, Queen of the Night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are a teenager whose bf broke up a teen romance. And you feel this is a revenge situation?
Why not just move to Afghanistan- they'll train you to be a suicide bomber.
Or, here is a novel idea- move on. It's a very grownup thing to do. After all, you really are not the only teenager in the world and you certainly aren't the first one to ever lose her crush.
Revenge has a nasty way of becoming bad karma for the person who executes it. Just look at the situation in the middle east.
2007-02-08 15:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by CYP450 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. the cooler you are about the whole thing, the better you will feel. revenge sounds like the best option at this point because of that crappy text message he sent you. no attention is better than negative attention, and the less attention you give to that creep, the sooner you can get over him and find a new abercrombie model on your holiday at the beach. plus, it will bother him that you are not bothered by this breakup.
2007-02-08 15:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge isnt worth it. You may end up ruining your chances of ever being with that person again. Just become friends with the guy. In the words of some guy i dont know, "make love, not war". lol
2007-02-08 15:38:51 · answer #4 · answered by unreal_punk_rocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok get in the gym at least 5 times a week or get a personal trainer and get a hott body then flaunt it at the beach also get a guy to go with you and be all over him!
2007-02-08 15:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by allie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from someone older (wiser?)
Living well and being happy is the BEST REVENGE !
2007-02-08 15:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just look good and ignore him, that'll hurt the most...
2007-02-08 15:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show up with a hot guy or do what altaira b said. or do both :)
2007-02-08 15:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go lesbian and steal his girlfriend.
2007-02-08 15:43:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slash his tires....
2007-02-08 15:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by **Taira** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋