he makes me furious!!! crazy mad!!!!
2007-02-08 15:20:08 · 23 answers · asked by meggie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
because he's a selfish, insecure jerk who probably doesn't even respect himself. dump him and get someone who will love and respect you.
2007-02-08 15:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by motorized vehicle 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Does he know he's making you mad? How do you show it? Guys can be really dumb when it comes to things like that. They could do the most obviously stupid, obnoxious, and offensive thing and honestly not know it is stupid or obnoxious. You have to tell him. He also might not know it seriously makes you mad. My advice would be to be perfectly clear. Don't hint and don't assume anything. Tell him, "I feel _______ when you _______ because _______." You might feel dumb for spelling out the obvious, but try it and see what happens.
Also, when you tell him you're upset, make it about you, not him. Start with "I feel......" If you make it about you, then that gives him a chance to "take care of you" so to speak, and he'll likely be more responsive. But if you make it about him (even though we all know it is) and say "You...." then lots of guys will go on the defensive and put on a front like they don't care, when they actually do.
Best of luck :)
2007-02-08 23:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Consuming Fire 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ROFLMAOOOOOOOOO Debi in LA. I hear ya gf. My hubby loves to see me mad. He laughs and says your so cute when your mad. Just the faces you make. I throw some good lines in there when I am mad to. Makes me angry when he laughs sometimes when I am mad, I got over that tho. He calms me down and brings me back to the level I should be. 99 percent of the time I am not mad at him anyhow. He just lets me take it out on him. He is a good guy. He understands me and doesn't take it personally.
2007-02-08 23:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the upset is all over there with you. He's just a mirror of you and what's going on with you. The things that piss us off in other people are things we know first hand about because they're happening in us.
Do the Forum and start living the life you were born to live. You'll do yourself and him a favor!
2007-02-08 23:24:29 · answer #4 · answered by Rivergirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dunno, l'il meggie. I'm sure you are quite terrifying when you are angry and people all around quiver in fear of their lives. especially that you might come along and double, triple, or even quadruple up on your exclamation points when you talk to them. Maybe you should see what happens if you really ACTUALLY get mad instead of just trying to do something to have an effect on your boyfriend. you might throw things around the room, or say truly terrible things, alienate the people you care about, destroy the bond of trust you have with those around you. You could even wind up in jail. Then see how your boyfriend likes THEM apples.
2007-02-08 23:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt care because he is selfish and probably doesnt care about you much. plus it makes you mad to think he doesnt care so then it makes him act that way even more.. Dump him before he dumps you because then you will be really mad. becides ask yourself if you are having fun with being mad all the time..
2007-02-08 23:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if I make someone that I care about mad obviously I want to know what is it that I did to make them mad, so I'm guessing that he just doesn't care about you.
2007-02-08 23:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by ROzeK 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's having fun to me. In fact, I kinda like the thought of you getting mad myself. Lol
2007-02-09 00:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by Heaven's Messenger 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's an insensitive jerk?
Maybe he's unaware that he's making you mad?
Maybe he's mad at something else and in turn making YOU mad in order to make himself feel better?
Or maybe its the first one again...
2007-02-08 23:23:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he makes you mad, and subsequently doesn't care, then he doesn't care about you. He shouldn't be making you mad, and if he did and cared about you, he would care about making you mad and want to change it.
Dump him
2007-02-08 23:24:25 · answer #10 · answered by nenababy1982 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably doesnt understand why he made you mad. Tell him honestly what he did that made you mad and make him understand it cause guys are a tough shell to crack
2007-02-08 23:23:40 · answer #11 · answered by K L 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋