I'm 19. I've had sex once in my entire life. I absolutely hated every second of it. I cried through it the entire time, not from physical pain though. (No, it wasnt rape) and I never EVER EVER want to do it ever again. And I really do feel like it is keeping me from having any relationships. I've had one decent relationship in my life. I dont ADVERTISE that I don;t like sex. Its like guys can just sense it and theres a huge invisible sign over my head that says "She wont give you any. STAY AWAY." So what is my problem?
2007-02-08 15:19:00 · 6 answers · asked by melissa h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to find someone you love and try it again... it was your first time, it's never that much fun the first time... a lot of girls cry the whole time, and a lot are in pain, but they do it again and it gets better. It's not something that is great the very first time, it's something you have to work at... and sex is really fun.. I think you just need to reexperience it and go from there.
2007-02-08 15:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a problem. You will meet the right guy one day, get married and have 10 kids. You see, I'm you psychic.
2007-02-08 23:24:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jay J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you had the wrong partner. maybe just to immature for the act. try again with some one else. maybe a man isn't the answer.
2007-02-08 23:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to see a specialist on such matters. Talk to your doctor and tell him the problem. He can get you to someone who could aid you and I guarantee, help you! Please do this for your own sake!
2007-02-09 12:10:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it wasn't time for you to have sex. Give it time trust me. I know.
2007-02-08 23:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Doughboy1993 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe you just haven't found the right person to do it with...
2007-02-08 23:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋