i'm so lonely. i just want to talk but i know i just make everyone else sad. i keep wishing i could have tried to make better friends before
2007-02-08 15:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by raincoat 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You need to seek help. Try talking to a councilor at school!
2007-02-08 15:10:58 · answer #1 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do your parents know you're sad? Sometimes we think our feelings are obvious to others but they aren't. Talk to them and make them aware. Did something happen to cause you to become sad or is it a feeling that stays with you? Sometimes life just sucks but when you go through rough times and come out on the other end and look back, you're a better and wiser person for it. Talk to someone! If they don't help, talk to someone else. If they don't help maybe you'll realize that they're messed up and you aren't so bad after all! Do you eat a lot of junk food? What we eat has a direct impact on our emotions. Try trading a soda a day for a glass of water instead. Eat something colorful and vibrant that's full of life like an orange, apple or salad. Don't allow your mind to dwell on being sad. Force yourself to think good thoughts. Tell yourself you're happy. Smile. Read or watch something that makes you laugh your butt off. Move your body. Hope this helps!
2007-02-08 15:20:40 · answer #2 · answered by Phylli_gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your parents don't want to address your problem because they think it is sort of a phase you are going through. Maybe they are totally at a loss on how to help you. One day I stumbled upon a website for a summer camp that truly motivates kids and teens. Although it focuses some on academics, I think this camp's benefits are the friends you make and the self-confidence it gives. You don't have to be smart and you certainly don't have to be athletic to attend. My daughter went and it was a good experience for her. The drawbacks are that it is very expensive and there's only about 6 locations in the U.S. However, they have installment plans and maybe other ways to get financial help. If you are interested in looking at the website, here it is:
www.SuperCamp.com
If you happen to enroll by phone, tell them you want the "Friends of SuperCamp" $100.00 savings and they will deduct that from your total.
2007-02-08 15:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Raincoat...
Your parents may not be refusing to help you. Maybe they are waiting for your love and your help as well.
Dun sit and wish. You can be a better fren starting now.
instead of thinking about the sad things, you can go out and see how you can help your frens.. everyone has something tat others can help them to do.
NOt only will you make them happy, you will also make yourself a happier person and gain more frens in the process.
2007-02-10 02:34:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are suffering depression for one reason or another but i think some of the cause has been described briefly.
Its possible your parents aren't aware (we dont know enough here to be sure) or are not equipped to understand or help deal with it. You need to speak to someone as you need to find out the source and type of your depression. Sometimes speaking about things are enough.
Family is usually the best way to work through this if its possible so try explaining it to them understanding that even though they might not seem to understand they love you unconditionally and will want to do what they can to help. If this doesn't work go see your doctor and get his advice as to who professionally you can see.
you will get there and friends will be there for you soon.
good luck friend.
2007-02-08 15:14:54 · answer #5 · answered by delprofundo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your cat like you?
Does your dog like you?
Did you try having a hot Apple Cider?
Did you try Ginger Tea with honey in it?
Did you talk with people you met today in a friendly way?
With enthusiasm, like when your dog welcomes you home?
Did you hug your Mother today?
Did you help someone?
Did you give someone something they wanted?
Did you ask for help? Did you offer help?
Can you feed the ducks with friends?
Can you join some club or school activity? 4-H, whatever.
Can you search for cheerful music?
Can you sing church hymns?
Sadness will not attract friends, but making an effort to be friendly will.
BE BOLD BE FRIENDLY!
It will surprise people and make them smile and be happy and they will really like having you around.
You can be THE CHEERFUL ONE in your house!
2007-02-08 15:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by Ursus Particularies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never too late to make friends, or to talk to your parents. Please go and explain to them how you feel! They care about you and want to help you - they may not know that you really feel this way. If they don't help, then go see your doctor because they can also help you - by referring you to a specialist or giving you medication to help you feel better. Please don't wait - I know how you feel because I suffer from depression and feel the same way from time to time. Talking with someone truly does make you feel so much better! I wish you the best! Take care!
2007-02-08 15:13:25 · answer #7 · answered by zowar1363 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.Have you tried to tell your parents you are having this problem?? It's never too late to make friends. Get out and meet people. Do volunteer work, or get a job if you don't have one. Work in a place like a dept. store or book store where you have time to talk to people. Get counseling. If you have a Health Dept. in your area, they have counseling based on your earnings or lack of.Good Luck to you.
2007-02-08 15:16:36 · answer #8 · answered by ann m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are really serious about this, you can add me to your yahoo msg its bebe_escape. I am here to talk to anyone who needs help. So talk to u there if you really want to
2007-02-08 15:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by TOokieTook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋