well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?
2007-02-08 14:59:08 · 7 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she likes you now, but why would she say no before? just ignore what she's doing now, you asked her and she said no. just give her time if you still like her maybe you should try talking to her in a text message...
2007-02-08 15:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that she may regret the decision she made by saying no to you. Perhaps it was a peer pressure kinda thing. Actually she never said no, her friends did. You should not have let that slide like that, but what is done is done. She could be shy with you because she is thinking about what could have been. All you can do or should do now is put the ball in her court. You have two options. One, ask her to go with you platonically on a group outing with a bunch of YOUR friends (beware of her friends). Keep it, and stress that it is platonic remember the ball is in her court, let her want it. Or second, keep open the lines of communication open with her, work to retain your friendship and present her with opportunities to ask you to do something. I personally like the first choice it shows that there are no hurt feelings on your part and that you are mature enough to still maintain a friendship with her. To want what you think you can't have is very alluring. She has to deal with the choice she made, but give her the opportunity to fix it if she wants to. Don't make it very easy, make it a small challenge, and once again try to steer clear of her friends.
2007-02-08 23:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by w2kaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do, is start talking the friend she told to tell you no, just say hi to her in the hall or at lunch, set back and see what happens, if she gets mad at the friend you know she like you. She playing a game so play back or move on to someone else.
Good luck.
2007-02-08 23:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very mixed signals. i would have thought that she would agree to go out with you when she said she thinks about it. okay, perhaps, there's no harm trying to get her out again. perhaps, after she said no the first time, she changed her mind and would like you to ask her out again. let her get to know you more and ask her out one final time. everyone deserves a second chance. she will like you for it if she's really waiting for you to ask her the second time.
2007-02-08 23:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its not that she changed her mind about wanting to go out i think she is feeling bad cause she did or she is missing your friendship but feels bad about not feeling the same way you do maybe you should try talking to her!
2007-02-08 23:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by moonangel31637 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all she has some sort of issue with u so i would pull her aside one day and just talk between u to and ask her if she does like u or what her deal is
2007-02-08 23:06:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she does not like u. happy???? i have seen this question 5 million billion times. i dont think she likes u. if ur really curious ask her.
2007-02-08 23:03:14 · answer #7 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋